Yes How goes it all? I am 34 from Belfast, though look a bit younger, but have lived a in three different countries. I am pretty good at meeting ladies. Well at least I know I am not the worst. I used to go out more in hope than expectation. Now I try to even the odds by having a game plan i.e. go and talk to a girl/group of girls early in the night and not need dutch courage(Alcohol). The best attitude you can have is to not give a f*ck about the outcome. Be like a salesman. No matter how many times they get rejected they always think the next one is a sale. Of course this makes it all sound easy and I still think up reasons not to approach.

Only problem I have is a lack of decent wing men. My mates are all great fellas but either married or scared to talk to girls. If you rate what I have said above or consider yourself a decent wing man then feel free to reply.

p.s. I have more respect for someone who goes and tries and gets blown out than for the bloke who laughs at him and gives him non stop grief when he hasn't done anything