Hey guys,

I think I've improved on my game a lot, but one part of it is that I want advice for girls I work with.

Now, I sense its different because you know these girls (obviously know there face, but maybe not so much have chatted to them very much).

Now I'm guessing the thing to do is chat about stuff that isn't work related so much because thats what everyone does, but I want some other advice on what to chat about etc? without being obvious im attempting to game them! thanks guys in advance!

Hey mate.

Its basically the same as any other place. Be interested in them, what kind of person are they? Are they just a pretty face or is there something behind it? When you are genuinely interested in somebody, you will start asking interesting questions. Share your experiences. Not many people do that. Once you got a connection in that sort of way, you can go a bit more direct, leading to a more sexual context.

At work (where you cannot be direct): make a connection first, be interested. Dont do this if you are not interested, dont do it when you want to 'practice'. There is no practice, you either do it or you dont. Follow Juggler, ask a question but dont expect a lame answer. You want the truth out of this women. If she is talking about her passion in life, but she looks like her dog his nuts exploded this morning, she is either a liar or a she has no understanding of what passion really is. You catch my drift?

After this initial rapport, try and steer the connection. perhaps she wants to do something together outside of work! When that happens, you are no longer bound by those limitations of being at work.

hope it helped at least a bit.

cheers

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thanks man! i appreciate your help with this one

don't shit where you eat

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Fired up?

not sure what you are asking.

but this is an old saying, sort of like:

- don't piss in the pool before getting in

it means: don't do risky stuff at a place that is important like work.

i've said it a million times, as have many (most) others here...

game girls at your work at your own peril.

piss them off ONCE and you will have a sexual harassment charge.

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