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Oh yeah. Easy topic of conversation that you can always use if you need to keep the conversation going; "so what are you doing in town today?"
I personally wouldn't use this to transition to another topic.
It's boring (No offense to your style). I bet most of the time when guys try to pick up chicks, this question will pop up sooner or later. It's too common. Chicks remember guys who distinguish themselves from the crowd.
There is another way to formulate this question though. Rearrange it into an assumption.
Ex:
(Gaming a HB8. She's wearing Steve Madden designer boots, a gucci Jacket, and a purse from Armani Exchange. You've opened already, had a chat about *insert topic here* and now are walking silently.)
You: So, when's the fashion show?
HB: What?
You: Well, just look at what you're wearing. Steve Madden shoes and gucci coat. You look like the type of girl who would be at all sorts of fashion gigs.
Her: Blah blah...
You: Well, if not a show then where are you going?
See where I'm going with this?
If you make an assumption, she's going to be curious about why you would think that and then you can ask what she's doing. She'll be more inclined to tell you.
If you would have asked her the boring question, she could have easily said "nothing" or "going somewhere" or whatnot.
*Tip: You can make a random assumption if you want, but I think you should try to make an assumption according to what you've observed about her. I said fashion in my example.*
Flirting:
Flirting isn't too hard.
1) Tease her. Teasing is good. Don't be mean though. Laugh at her in a fun way.
2) You need to show her that you are attracted to her. Maybe after you tease her, complement her.
Ex: You have a birthmark right there (gently touch her birthmark on her cheek) It's like someone drew a dot there. (Now she should be blushing or embarrassed. Call her out on it.) Don't be embarrassed, I looks mighty cute on you. (Smile)
3) Touch her. In the example above, I accomplished all three (touching her birthmark gently). Touching is a must when you're trying to move the interaction forward.
Well, good luck you guys!
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