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PostPosted: Mon Jun 13, 2011 11:08 pm 
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Just going to bump this topic up again because I see a lot of people struggling with the important of words and the combination that you need to actually SHOW your intent.

As Kasabi mentioned in his post, it's important that you don't TELL the story but that you SHOW it. Just a great analogy to actually help with the explanation of this:

A study showed that out of 100 persons the following fact happened:
The 100 participants had to see a show of 2 magicians. They both had great reputations and both were amazing in their profession. However - the first magician was famous for telling and selling his trics. While the second magician was famous because he used a lot of interaction with the audiance.

When asked to the audience "which performance/show they liked best."
Roughly 74% answered with the second performance.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 14, 2011 11:31 am 
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Realy enjoyed your post and great Idea Joe ( totally robbing it! )
I usually try and put her on defence and state how "awesome boys are compared to girls" to which she usually says " no girls are a hell of a lot better than boys because ...."
My result "Boy Girl competition !" Get her out and just do stupid competitions with eachother in the form of pool , better film taste , better food taste etc the competition is usually endless and you usually forget that their was a competition in the first place because it just become routine that you want to see eachother. I never state directly that I like the girl ( I dont know why :( ) but I always esculate and I feel me spending my time with her is a big " I like you anyways"

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I originally posted this on a different thread but in hindsight, I think that this is a different topic altogether. I recently shared a chat with 'storyteller' (not his real handle. Here's his plight:

1. He likes a girl.
2. He TELLS his friends he likes this girl.
3. He TELLS the girl, “You know how I feel about you right?”
4. The girl obviously gets skittish. The boy obviously feels disappointed.
5. He reads a few lines out of random pick up material.
6. Now he wants to tell girl a bunch of PU bs then finish with, "So let's go grab a smoothie. You're treating."
To clarify Kasabi just outlined the basis for most of the inexperienced teen interaction. This is pretty much the outline by which I have gone on dates in the past/throughout high school.

For me, It's pretty obvious when a girl is interested in me. A big factor is by body language and tonality. Just building small report and getting a number close you can build into many more options.

On my current gf, when we first went out together in public (which is a date regardless if it's official). I pretty much set up a scenario in her head which was appealing to her.

Me: So I kinda am totally feeling a smoothie right now, you in?
Her: haha im at work
Me: Sounds like someone needs a vacation
Her: Haha def
Me: Regardless I have to satisfy my inner nature desire for smoothies. I might be able to wait till tomorrow though.
Her: Haha well seee

*tomorrow afternoon*
Me: I just got out of the gym, we still on?
Her: Suree...
Me: Aight meet u there

From there its just a sure win, shes already communicated attraction and comfort by willing to go in public with you. Remember, what girls text's/say and what they feel/mean are really two separate entities.

They key here is not to dwell too much on the talking/build up. It's nice to build a little sexual tension, but if it's all talk and no action then she will get bored and move onto the next guy who can try and satisfy her insatiable female desires. Actions speak louder than words, and don't be discouraged if shes hesitant or gives LMS. Its common knowledge in the community that it's better to try than go around thinking "what if?"


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 10:08 pm 
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Very good distinction. It's easy to misinterpret how PU works as a newbie.

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What a great post. Your getting a girl to go with you to do something that you both enjoy, and that in itself implies interest. I'd like to take this and refine it. Maybe by teasing her you can build on attraction, Showing her that your not afraid of disapproval; at the same time your doing this. I'll come up with some stuff, test it. And get back on this thread.

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I like this! You just apply that after you have opened and built up comfort. It instantly sets you up for a day 2 a bit under the radar. Nice post.

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Very smooth.

I can see this working on multiple psychologies of women. There are very few things that fall into the universally attractive category. This is definitely one of them.

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I love this post, this take some of the robotic detached feel out of game and brings back humanity into it.

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This is good, I agree with this ( although I am a newbie )
It has logic in it.

So..You dont want to be too direct and say
"I like you, you buy me shit"

You flirt talk, give her a challenge, not serve her a plate
ofc. If i got it right?

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Cool post! :D

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Very insightful,

Thanks for sharing
totally agree!)

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This is quality advice. I aim to implement it.

(Also love the date idea above of having $x budget and buying each other gifts)

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