Ok I have been talking to a girl online and met up with her a few days ago and it went really well and we have arranged to meet again Tuesday evening. I would like this to turn into a relationship! Thus weekend she is off on a hen do. Ok she has been texting mr which us good but things to say are running out lol. Should I be cheeky teasing or play safe? I want her to start wanting me etc. I'm finding she us on my mind loads. Cheers

Erm, 'be yourself', is all I can say really. That being said, I'm not sure how good that would be to tell you right now.



Does she seem interested in you? How did things go? Have you kissed? fucked? Anything? Playing safe isn't the best way, ever. Also don't be thinking 'I want to turn this into a relationship', because if you're trying to set it up as a relationship, it may come on a little weird, unless she is a bit shy n stuff herself.


Sexual connection, then affection. A relationship will happen naturally, there will come a point where she/you are unsure of what you(both) are, that is when you both decide if relationship or not. So, be chill, get sexual, you little eager beaver you!

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Yea she seems very intreasred. No we have not kissed yet but after l went home she text to say she had a really good evening and would like to see me again. I replyed saying something like that would be really good and if you were wondering why I did not kiss you I was not sure if u would get a slap. (That's not word for word) She replyed saying she is looking foward to seeing me and the kiss!!

So in-between meeting like at the moment if your texting how should you act fun / playful / sexy / teasing about things?

Any thoughts?

I could tell you how *I* would be... but to be honest, I think the best peice of advice would be...

KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING.


She likes you, it's all good. Now next time, grab hold of your balls and kiss her.*
But yeah, if you *think/feel* you can kiss a girl, you probably could have done it ages ago. Don't worry so much about 'waiting for the best moment'. There will be loads of nice little moments, take any of them.

Let us know how it all works out, bro. Would be nice to hear it turns out how you want.

*Don't actually grab your balls as you kiss her, may look a bit odd.



Love

~Finesse

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

Hey mate. Thanks for your reply I will keep you posted on how Tuesday goes and I will give her a kiss. It's odd I really like her and it almost feels like I'm back at school lol.

So what's your view on the texting side?

Calls > Text.

Text Ratio: 2:1

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Sorry I dont get what you mean?

He means you should ignore him.


Anyway, I would have said the text asking/mentioning the kiss was lame. But seems it didn't matter much in this case.

So all good. In regards to texting, in times she is being shit at responding, don't be so eager. Etc.

Try and match her level of enthusiasm, and other times perhaps be a little less enthusiastic then she was.

So it kinda all evens out.

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

Thanks for your reply mate I will do as you suggest. Should I do small talk over text or not really bother? She ever so often will say how's your day going that kind of thing.

Why not? I do. Though I usually have normal convos over text/turn things sexual, but it all depends.


Don't have to. But do if you want/can.

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

I meant calls are better than texts imo.

And you shouldnt text her as often if she doesnt text you.

Just keep listening to Finesse

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Aw ok mate.