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Fin | PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2009 6:51 pm | |
Offline | PUA Forum Leader | | Joined: Fri Mar 21, 2008 7:21 pm Posts: 1618 | Doctor, their is a difference between closing a number and "making" someone abort a pregnancy.
Just becuase people learn PU doesn't mean that we must then abandon morals.
To O.P.
Contraception and morning after, that's your concern. The pregancy is a shared problem it's as muhc hers as it is yours and for that reason it has to be worked out logically rather than through the use of an NLP pattern or persuasion technique.
Maybe next time you'll be more careful, but for now talk about it with her, explain your position, and LISTEN to hers.
That's all you can do.
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Bonita | PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2009 7:41 pm | |
Offline | Dedicated Member | | Joined: Fri Aug 08, 2008 6:38 pm Posts: 655 | We all agree that you should have been safer in the first place (or hypothetically safer in this 'hypotheical' situation) so there is no need to bring that issue up again.
I think communication is the key though. It is wrong to drag her to the abortion clinic and make her have one and it is wrong to do any harm to her. But you can, and should be able to talk to her about how you feel. Chances are you are not ready or in a position to support a kid. Chances are, she probably isn't either. I forget who said it, but sit down and talk about the options. You can throw your ideas and feelings out there and at the end of the day she is either going to accept them or dismiss them. You never know, maybe she doesn't want the kid but because you didn't say anything, she assumed that you want the kid so she didn't have the abortion.
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Orad | PostPosted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 11:56 am | |
Offline | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Dec 16, 2008 7:14 am Posts: 13 | ok u have 2 options leave the state if she knows ya name leave the country
or punch her really hard in the gut (of course i am fuckin around)
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KristallNachte | PostPosted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 4:10 pm | |
Offline | PUA Forum Leader | | Joined: Sat Jan 31, 2009 12:30 am Posts: 1800 Location: Kintown, Okinawa, Japan | Two words: FALCON PUNCH!!!!! _________________ Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future
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Myth | PostPosted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 5:42 pm | |
Offline | Dedicated Member | | Joined: Fri Jun 08, 2007 8:48 pm Posts: 554 Location: Key | Talk to her about your feelings and opinion on the situation.
Tell her WHY you want her to get an abortion....
Thats all you can do
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