My personality wise, I feel like I can be goof sometimes. But its in my personality.
I am (according to many woman in my school), good looking guy.

When hot girls IOI me, and I approach/ or being approached, they start to dislike me when I am bitgoof.
But if I behave more ALOT more serious, they start to like me. Like seroíous smile, not being funny.
But when non-hot girls approach me, they dont really care.

I am starting to feel like, hot girls want a very serious guy.
Does anyone else feels the same?

I know this is a very wierd thread, but I need to know your experience. I swear that I am in a such a big identical-crisis right now

Do what works.

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It's mostly whether you are goofy or happy, and he'll often that's me, or you are a jester. The latter is when you are making a fool of yourself to try to entertain others.

Nothing wrong with being a goofball, but self-depreciating will get you nowhere.

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There is a time/place for everything. Once you get really good, you can flip the switch either way. Be funny and make her laugh at geniuinely funny things. Then when the topic is serious/not funny, you are serious/normal.

It has to do with being socially well calibrated, that's what hot women want. When you are goofy or serious all the time it appears you are trying to compensate for something.

Have you ever heard that women giggle or talk alot or whatever when they are nervous? Same thing applies with men, if you are demonstrating you are uncomfortable via being goofy in a womans presence then you are subcommunicating you are not worthwhile.

Alpha males are serious about things. But goofy has it's time and place.

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Thanks everyone

In my experience, being goofy is never acceptable. If a girl is already attracted to you, she will laugh at something about you that wasn't funny to begin with.

For example:
Her: why did you spill coffee all over yourself?
you: because I am clumsy.

Yup noticed the same thing. When girls are attratced, and I play goofy, she friendzones me, or she walks away.

As one of the post mentioned, being serious is alpha(or other way around), but being goofy has it times, once in a while. But should not be from my expereince, a personality you have 24/7.

I'm having a similar conundrum. I am very serious specially when first meeting a person. While everyone is chatting away I tend to be quiet as I don't like small talk. Also I have a penetrating gaze. I am reading 'The Game' and it all seems to be about showmanship and being friendly/comic etc, not my style. I mean I can laugh and sometimes act like a child (I do have a sense of humor), but not when we are just meeting, not sure if that makes sense.

If you're serious all the time you're either boring or a creep. If you're funny all the time you're a clown.

Be both with the emphasis on being funny so you make people feel comfortable. Funny guys can get away with a lot more than serious guys.

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Her: Hey, what are you doing at this bar tonight?
You: Picking up women.
Her (with big eyes, excited that a man says exactly what he's fucking thinking to her face): ha, how's that going?
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Quality people want quality people around that aren't afraid to be themselves. You shouldn't be compromising who you are just to get some girl to like you. Do you like yourself? Do you enjoy being goofy? That should be more important to you.

It's not what you do its how you do it though. There are goofy guys that get laid, and there are serious guys that get laid. There are happy guys that get laid, and there are depressed guys who get laid. Getting laid is about your confidence to be assertive, it's not so much about your mood/personality so.

If you're not getting laid as a goofy guy, you're not going to get laid as a serious guy either. It's not like girls start banging you when you become serious. They just treat you a little different and you just interpret it as better. But what tangible results has being serious actually gotten you?

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