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So I changed my mind. I don't want to meet with her at all. I met some other women this morning and got their contacts while I was buying myself some breakfast.
I have had women message me saying: "I want to know what you want to do!" the night before we meet up after I tell them I plan to give them a call and tell them about a fun plan to meet up the next night. This is what she messaged me last night.
Of course, she is already thinking that I want to just have sex with her and she is correct. In situations like this, the woman would already be ready to go with her rejection on the tip of her tongue when I call her up lol. There is a chance that she might be down to have sex, but usually that is not the case when they ask questions like the one above.
I will assume that she is just going to turn me down over the phone, which is fine. She is the one that was hitting on me yesterday, while I was just shopping for a mother's day gift lol. It is no loss and like mentioned on here a billion times, there are countless other women to move on to that will be interested.
Glad to see everything worked out.
Just out of curiosity, does telling them you have a surprise for them ever actually work? I would never say that honestly. It seems sketchy. Of course there are ways of going about. The way you phrase things and general tone helps. I just would not feel comfortable saying that. I don't see the issue in taking a girl out to get a drink before hand. It makes the sex better too. I wouldn't be concerned about spending like $10. A lot of girls these days will pay for themselves too. I generally follow a rule that if I take a girl out somewhere, I don't pay for her until I know she's worth it. If I take a girl out for the first time I will even tell her.
"You could just be using me for free food so I have to make sure you're legit haha". They usually laugh. It's kind of similar to how a girl might say they won't have sex with you immediately. They withhold sex, I withhold buying them drinks. To each their own.
Everything got resolved though. That's great, brother.
Keep us updated, cheers.
Thanks man!
Actually, saying this has worked out for me countless times with women. Of course, I also often meet the more cautious type (totally understandable) that want me to spell out exactly what I plan to do with them. These are huge red flags for me, so when this happens I just move onto other women.
I could have called up that woman the following day, just to prove to myself that I was right about her planning to flake on me, but there is no reason to waste my time because I have already experienced this type of phone conversation with a couple other women before.
Yes, I sometimes take women out for dinner and a drink before going to a love hotel, but I guess being a more direct guy, I have a habit of skipping passed all that haha.