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There is this girl that works at a clothing store in whixh I buy most of my clothes. She is really beautiful and my age (19). I have walked in there and talked to her 3 times; the first time a few weeks ago with my friend, the second time yesterday with a few more friends. And today I decided to go there, tell her that I think she's pretty cute and go for a Number close.
That's too often for a clothing store. And cutting it close for a bar.
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So she saw me and was like "oh, are you here again?"
Wait two months to erase the creepiness, go back in and ask her out. Game other women in the meantime.
EDIT: There's a lesson in here too, that goes back to the "go for it and be direct" thread currently raging (lol).
When you linger, you risk looking emotionally-uncentered (creepy). And you're lingering.
When you meet women, be congruent with your desires and ask them out right away, first time you talk to them.
EDIT: You can also go in sooner if you're with another woman (not a friend, a girl who looks at you fondly and/or touches you).