I've been noticing recently a lot of guys come here for really really fucktarded things.

"Girl sent me this text, what do I do?"

"She won't text me back, what do I do?

"She showed me her dog, what do I do?"

"She smiled at me in Walmart, what do I do?"

"She broke up with me! WAH!! BOO fucking HOO!"

Honestly, I find it all to be complete bullshit. This has become just like a crutch to what the're trying to escape.

Their form of social interaction. We regurgitate the same thing time and again. Self improvement first.

But once they've decided it's easier ask repetitive horseshit than to actually go do something, they sit!

Fucking go do it. Go take that nugget of advice and try it. Go out there and ask for what you want. Go do exciting things, try to be bold.

You don't need to wait for anyone's permission here.

Stop using this forum as a crutch. If you keep relying on it, you won't get anywhere, you need to go out there and experience things for yourself.

Learn for yourself that, crying on your knees and professing your undying love and buying expensive gifts, DOESN'T FUCKING WORK!

Fall on your face. Get blown out of a set it front of everyone. Wake up with a throbbing head, a dry dick, and club stamps all over the back of your hand.

Learn to salsa. Go to the gym 6 days a week, three fucking hours a day for 8+ years.

Learn how to talk to women, by talking to women.

I had to.

So what are you waiting for?

GO!

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Most guys post here when it is important.

If there's a random HB and sent them a text, most guys who know a thing or two will just test something on her and do it or not on the next girl they find depending on the results. Realize that most posts here asking shit has more at stake.

These are human beings...and what you're suggesting isn't a way to live life. Imagine being on a date and panicking because you don't have the right thing to say. What are you gonna do? Go to the bathroom and post on the forums hoping someone will reply to you?

Heywood is completely right in letting some of you sink. My last response was warranted when a guy was asking what to text a girl AFTER he copied and pasted a text he found on google. I mean...seriously? Can you imagine their date? We don't mean to be pick up snobs but some of you have been using this forum as a crutch. When I started out, I experienced the same thing. I will admit that I used this forum as a crutch but holy shit, google and the search bar is there.I didn't have all day to wait for a reply. Even if it was the right one, life was moving on. Life does not pause and the woman won't pause either if you're waiting to have that perfect reply for her. She will think you aren't interested.


What Heywood said is right. Sometimes you're going to go home with only lube and porn to look forward to. Or you can say "shit, what went wrong and what can I improve". The thing in my sig is there for a reason. I know it's hard in the beginning but you are going to have to do the hard work. Even now, I still ask questions or at least get a second opinion on things. Usually they are complex but even I have to go back and read some material. You are never too old to learn new tricks.

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Some of you fuckers need to understand that success is failure perfected.

I've been rejected more times that most of you have even attempted.

Sleep on that for a while.

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Dude, that's my point. For example, I only post on this forum when I think it is important, like a scenario that repeats itself or a girl that has some really different pattern, or what lesson can be learned from a situation.
I think most guys do that. What i'm saying is most guys' posts aren't panick bathroom posts, they are either reviews of past situations or help with different scenarios...which is totally valid imo.

girls that are stable and mature won't give you a problem. You guys want to tame the crazy ones or the ones that give you hell.


Why would we encourage you to pursue crazy?

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Lol, true. But women aren't really stable rational creatures. Aristotle or Socrates said that I think.

Get that shit out of your head. This is the go to type of thinking when men don't want to accept the responsibility for their own shortcomings. We sure like to take the credit when a woman is happy with us but the moment that they start feeling negatively towards us...we start calling them irrational and unstable.

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