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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2017 7:01 pm 
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My girlfriend and i recently broke up due to some long distance drama.i played it cool and now shes contacting me on a daily basis.she says shes sorry for her actions and that she loves me. Shes dropped a couple hints about possibly wanting to get back together one day by saying things like "i know you dont feel the same anymore" and "i dont deserve for you to wanna talk to me", or " i dont know what the future holds for us" but we mainly talk about our daughter and life in general.shes also talked about how crazy this guy she was talking to is (which is why we broke up).she always contacts me first. My question is, is it possible that maybe this is her way of trying to get me to reconcile with her? Or is this a trick to get me in her friendzone?


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My girlfriend and i recently broke up due to some long distance drama.i played it cool and now shes contacting me on a daily basis.she says shes sorry for her actions and that she loves me. Shes dropped a couple hints about possibly wanting to get back together one day by saying things like "i know you dont feel the same anymore" and "i dont deserve for you to wanna talk to me", or " i dont know what the future holds for us" but we mainly talk about our daughter and life in general.shes also talked about how crazy this guy she was talking to is (which is why we broke up).she always contacts me first. My question is, is it possible that maybe this is her way of trying to get me to reconcile with her? Or is this a trick to get me in her friendzone?

Whether it her trying to reconcile, or a frienzone...why do you care? All that matters is whether you care. And you do.


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My girlfriend and i recently broke up due to some long distance drama.i played it cool and now shes contacting me on a daily basis.she says shes sorry for her actions and that she loves me. Shes dropped a couple hints about possibly wanting to get back together one day by saying things like "i know you dont feel the same anymore" and "i dont deserve for you to wanna talk to me", or " i dont know what the future holds for us" but we mainly talk about our daughter and life in general.shes also talked about how crazy this guy she was talking to is (which is why we broke up).she always contacts me first. My question is, is it possible that maybe this is her way of trying to get me to reconcile with her? Or is this a trick to get me in her friendzone?

Whether it her trying to reconcile, or a frienzone...why do you care? All that matters is whether you care. And you do.
Lol well im trying to smash her...so yea i care.


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My girlfriend and i recently broke up due to some long distance drama.i played it cool and now shes contacting me on a daily basis.she says shes sorry for her actions and that she loves me. Shes dropped a couple hints about possibly wanting to get back together one day by saying things like "i know you dont feel the same anymore" and "i dont deserve for you to wanna talk to me", or " i dont know what the future holds for us" but we mainly talk about our daughter and life in general.shes also talked about how crazy this guy she was talking to is (which is why we broke up).she always contacts me first. My question is, is it possible that maybe this is her way of trying to get me to reconcile with her? Or is this a trick to get me in her friendzone?

Whether it her trying to reconcile, or a frienzone...why do you care? All that matters is whether you care. And you do.
Lol well im trying to smash her...so yea i care.

Then find other women. If you're "trying to smash" a chick who broke up with you for another guy, then you dont have good options. In your other thread you ask about girls and assholes. You dont need to be an asshole, but you need SELF RESPECT and lack of DESPERATION. Instead of new pussy, who do you want to go back to some old child birthing pussy that some other guy is banging?


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Whether it her trying to reconcile, or a frienzone...why do you care? All that matters is whether you care. And you do.[/quote


Then find other women. If you're "trying to smash" a chick who broke up with you for another guy, then you dont have good options. In your other thread you ask about girls and assholes. You dont need to be an asshole, but you need SELF RESPECT and lack of DESPERATION. Instead of new pussy, who do you want to go back to some old child birthing pussy that some other guy is banging?[/quote][/quote]

Why cant i do both? I appreciate your views on the abundance mentality, and your right i agree but that is still not an answer to the question i asked.i simply wanted to know what to do about this ONE situation in particular to get a certain girl back.


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Youve gotten the same advice a dozen times here. Look, even if you want to smash an old chick, the best thing for you to do, is forget her and move on with your dating life. Tbh, she's prob just talking to you for attention. She's more likely to come back, if she sees your with 3 other hotter women.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 1:02 am 
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Youve gotten the same advice a dozen times here. Look, even if you want to smash an old chick, the best thing for you to do, is forget her and move on with your dating life. Tbh, she's prob just talking to you for attention. She's more likely to come back, if she sees your with 3 other hotter women.
Ok your right i get it.i knew i had to put her out of my mind i just didnt know how to handle her contacting me in a way that wouldnt burn the bridge permanently.i think i know what to do now.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 9:43 am 
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She's looking for attention and trying to figure if she still has you wrapped.
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Why cant i do both?
Because for one, you're not emotionally detached.
And two, because you get ahead in life by moving forwards, not backwards.

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.shes also talked about how crazy this guy she was talking to is
You find this acceptable?

And do you think she would still be calling you apologizing if things with this guy would of worked out perfectly for her?

If no.. Then you're saying that you don't mind being the back up plan. And if you don't, i don't understand why you're even here..

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10, 2017 1:12 am 
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When an EX contacts you, you should suggest nothing, play it cool, nod and smile during the conversation as if you care what shes talking about and if she instigates sex, you smash her back door in with your dick without putting Vaseline on her first, then never contact her again


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