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I was on a date with a girl and she was constantly texting and checking her facebook and instagram. WTF??
How do you handle that?
You can only handle it if you're willing to disregard her completely if she doesn't oblige. And it currently doesn't sound like you have that in you, so you have to learn to "Walk" away from women who do this to build your willingness to do so.
I personally will just snatch the phone out of her hand and put it in my pocket, but I also possess the confidence to pull this off. If you don't, you'll be making a mistake by trying it. You have to know, not "think" that you're 10x more worth her focusing on her attention on than her phone.
Bottom line is, you'll have to deal with anything you're willing to accept in life. If you're willing to allow people to do something, you'll run into people who will do it. If you're willing to allow people to take your land, someone who "takes land" will take it. There are nice people out there who won't take it, because they were taught better, but there are those who will to the people who are willing to allow them too.
You don't need a method or a technique. Once you're not willing to accept it, your personality will create your own method of handling it.
But if something bothers you, SPEAK UP, or TAKE ACTION. Immediately. You have to value yourself more than that. Whether thats saying something to her, taking her phone, or walking away. But if you say something and she doesn't comply, you must still then takeaction - which would be "Walking away" in your case.
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