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IME, shit tests are broader. I've seen that if you don't follow with her humor and flow, you bruise the rapport and banter you've built till then. Like, say you don't take a joke right. If you can keep up with the Joneses, it could increase attraction and I guess that that's a sort of wall or barrier you have to break. If you take it wrong, welp.... you know what they say about 2dicks & a joke.
I generally call shit tests: obstacles that obscure the str8 line from open to close lol
It might sound counter-redpill, but my target is the lovely MILF and sometimes they view me as too young(20 years old).
Let me give an example that I learned from RSD Todd(valentine university, talk about BANG for your buck LMAO. 1 Dollar...). She may basically communicate a limiting belief she has like "you're old enough to be my son" and most men don't pick up on this subtle communication, because they're too caught up in the fun vibes of the moment. Look at it like chess and my personal way to progress or tread down this line would be to make this move: "So, tell me a little about your son" amplify. She obviously doesn't want to screw her own son, so you have to diversify yourself from her image of her son.
What I generally use to get a bit further is "Haha, got it. I can imagine what it's like to (repeat what I understood from her) and let me tell you that I personally (story in which her son's qualities don't resonate)"- agree and break objection(change her image of you)
With younger chicks I've had the issue that she'll shock humor me and knock me out of state, thus sending her F2M attraction to pluto(cuz my reaction is not attractive or fun). Other times I fail to keep her interest(she gets bored AF) whereas a good move in the line would've progressed things smoothly(I only have this in text game). My opinion would be to obv make the distinction as mentioned before between fucking around and shit tests, but not to disregard obvious congruence tests(like the chick talking about how she hates smaller dicks) as shit tests, because in the longer run, they clearly are obstacles that hold attraction back on the str8 line.
BTW CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG; I'M AS GOOD AS NEW AND I'M ONLY SHARING MY OPINION
None of what you're speaking of are
shit tests.
Banter isn't a
shit test...it's a positive sign that your conversation is going well.
Making the statement of "you're old enough to be my son" isn't a
shit test. This is her pointing out her insecurity and your job to reassure her that everything is okay.
I get what you're trying to say, but the whole
shit test definition is applying a negative feeling towards you. You trying to turn something that you've perceived
as negative, when it is not, to a positive ends up making you look like you're trying too hard. Once you become a try hard, then women will start looking at you in a negative way.