Ok, went on a date where I did ok, but not much escalation. I wasn't able to figure out if I was just not doing amazing with it or if the girl was really shy - could have easily been either. She seemed to have fun, and it went on for like six hours, until 2 am (when she had to be up at 6 am).
She's busy and I'm busy so we text occasionally, and she's always responsive, but she seems less responsive/talkative lately (I sent a text about something we made a lot of jokes about and she responded with a one word response). Theoretically we had a date set for Saturday, but I got a vibe that she was going to flake, and I was at a wedding, so I pre-emptively flaked and said I had no idea when I was going to be back in town.
Her response was: "That's ok--I have alternate plans."
I responded with, "Cool"
Now, I'm thinking on how best to spike interest with her again. I was reading about a technique where you call up the girl (whether she answers or not is irrelevant) and say you know you've offended her, and you're going to be a gentleman and demand (as in, you're basically ordering her to do so) she come out with you to rectify the situation.
Does this sound like a good angle to play it? I don't think she's entirely discounted me, but I think I'm in that region where the girl is theoretically open, but sorta bored, so the probability of her meeting up is low.
I perhaps should have been more sexual with her, but she came off as incredibly shy.
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