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PostPosted: Sun Dec 01, 2013 6:28 pm 
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hi guys, i got to know a lady probably about a month ago. and now we will be going on a trip alone soon, staying in the same room. she does have a boyfriend from her country (LDR currently), and seems to pretty close.

We have been out a couple of times alone, and even when we are out with other friends she would like me to pick her up and send her back (i do not drive). I would say she is fairly comfortable around me, we have been in each other rooms alone, lay on the bed, and have cooked for each other. But nothing sexual happen, just talking about a wide range of stuff including life and travelling. She did mentioned how the bf break his promise to her, how the he was not what she would dated, how the bf put in the effort to woo her, and how the bf world revolves around her.

I am confused, if i should approach her during the trip, or keep the trip like holiday with a friend. Thank you for hearing me out. =)


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 1:15 am 
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Here's one of the best tips ever:
Most women in LDR want to cheat. The majority of LDRs are bullshit. However in order to bypass their conscience they need some sort of narrative that they can get "caught up into". (look up saying "getting caught up in the moment")

-Gauge if there's sexual tension/attraction on her end. Just flirt with her occasionally, make decent conversation, but try to remain aggressive with your body language. If she's feeling you she'll start reciprocating.

-This is a good chance to use NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). So, jokingly say, "I'm not going to have sex have you!" This will implant the idea of you and sex in her mind.

-Try not to overthink these things. If she's not interested don't force yourself on her. Just be cool.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 3:14 am 
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Also if there has been no sexual overtone or undertone to this point, introducing it now could shock the girl. There is a good chance she sees the OP as a buddy who takes her places. Nothing wrong with that if the OP is happy with that arrangement. I don't sense that he is, but just a warning on introducing sexuality into a long-term friends relationship. We're doing the girls a favor by being ourselves and coming out with our intentions from the start.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 4:09 pm 
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Thank for your advice. i guess i have did that. i told her tat i will "have" her in the trip jokingly, and her reply was she will stab me(jokingly).

during the trip should i plan something that surprise her?
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Here's one of the best tips ever:
Most women in LDR want to cheat. The majority of LDRs are bullshit. However in order to bypass their conscience they need some sort of narrative that they can get "caught up into". (look up saying "getting caught up in the moment")

-Gauge if there's sexual tension/attraction on her end. Just flirt with her occasionally, make decent conversation, but try to remain aggressive with your body language. If she's feeling you she'll start reciprocating.

-This is a good chance to use NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). So, jokingly say, "I'm not going to have sex have you!" This will implant the idea of you and sex in her mind.

-Try not to overthink these things. If she's not interested don't force yourself on her. Just be cool.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 9:21 pm 
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If you two have compatible personalities then it'll work out. She'll have fun being with you and you'll have fun being with her. So if you want to go out to a nice restaurant then do it. She'll probably be happy to at least have your company. Just make your intentions a bit clear, y'know?

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 7:44 am 
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If you two have compatible personalities then it'll work out. She'll have fun being with you and you'll have fun being with her. So if you want to go out to a nice restaurant then do it. She'll probably be happy to at least have your company. Just make your intentions a bit clear, y'know?
cheers mate. i will probably plan a star glazing picnic at night.

But for making my intention clear, how do u propose i do it? i was holding back due to the fact she has a bf...


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