Feeling guilty about recent success with women



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 27, 2012 6:25 pm 
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My story is long but ill make this short

PUA to Engaged to Unegnaged to Player

I hate to use that term but i've been doing things i've only heard of.
I had three threesomes in the last 2 weeks?

Anyways... I feel awful.

David X says we shouldn't think ourselves the devil and they are angels. But old morals are f---ing with me.

How should I feel. Help me frame this in other words .


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 27, 2012 7:47 pm 
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No respones? Come on guys, it says MPUA. Where are the black belts at?


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 27, 2012 8:00 pm 
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I am not hating, but usually a guy who has 3 threesomes in a short period of time does not come here to ask how he should feel.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 27, 2012 8:02 pm 
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Kevin Smith (the director of Clerks) says it best:

I was raised Catholic for god's sakes. I'm not used to this type of stuff.


I'm agnostic I dont have a religion but I do feel some tug in my chest of morality.

Although I think i shouldnt i think its society views and stuff.

??? THoughts


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You have to change your mentality. It's the only way to feel congruent with yourself.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 27, 2012 8:05 pm 
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Let me make it more clear
Its not the threesomes i feel bad about either

Its the times I get them one at a time.

U know what i mean

I def dont feel bad about 3somes.

Its kinda like feeling bad about playing individual girls..... Speak on that. Dating 2 3 girls at a time?

Thanks btw to BX


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 27, 2012 8:11 pm 
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Depends. Do you feel guilty because you still have feelings for your ex? Or is it because you feel empathetic towards them, due to being close to, and (I hope) respecting one woman for a long period of time?

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let them know what's up then. Tell them you are casually dating girls. You don't want to come off as a deceitful ass. Being honest will earn you some respect.


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I tell them I'm looking for the right person but I have to know more.

If theres sex theres sex i dnt say that but something like it to convey the idea without being a sleez

I dont have feelings for my EX

I do respect women and understand what i call "the mogonostic understanding" that being that when ur hooking up with one person more times than not they want u to only be hooking up with them.

im trying to be congruent.... Morality vs who i wantto be

lol i dont see it this way. but its hard


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So what are you feeling guilty about exactly?

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Just the dichotomy of being a "bad guy"

However ur right

I'm telling em whats up so whats to be feeling bad about thanks guys


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If you are decieving girls to get in their pants or giving the impression you are way more serious about them than you actually are then you are right to feel bad. As the guys said, just be straight with them. Don't lie. But the rules of confidence and comfort apply here.

By that I mean if you look down at the floor, say ummmmmmm then sheepishly tell a woman you are seeing other people right now, she will take this as a huge red light.

At the right time, when it is absolutely necessary to do so, look her in the eye and tell her you are seeing other women. Don't make excuses, just be upfront. Women will be shocked by your honesty and this will also give you more social proof/value.

'If lots of people want something, it must be good'

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questions: i practice this anyway but do u always tell them the first time u meet them that ur seeing other ppl?

Whats a good way to frame it. I always struggle to find the right words.


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You are a sexual human being, you enjoy the company of others, you do not limit yourself but you are willing to share part of yourself with her. She is going to have a lot of fun with you, you are taking her on a journey.

You don't ever have to tell her. But if she asks, that is how you should think about it. I would be very weary of saying it to a woman in those words unless you already have sexual tension/rapport/recognition.

If she reacts by getting upset, then stupid bitch should not have asked a question she didn't want to know the answer to. As humans we are doomed to it though. Do your best to talk about it, let her speak her mind, and do what you think is best.

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Everybody has their own morale and I can not tell you to use mine. You gotta figure that out for yourself.

A few guidelines though, do what makes you happy. If yoou are having 3somes to prove something, you are doing it for the wrong reson, especially if it makes you feel bad inside. If it makes you feel good, by all means, do it.

You still need to figure out what you believe in, what others have told you and what society makes you believe. Sort that out and you will have your answer.

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