Okay I wanna know if any of you are in a similar situation and how you dealt with it.
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I really wanna meet girls and get laid but I'm financially not doing well. I work on the weekends and goto school on the weekdays I pay for my own stuff so I don't really have much money most of it goes towards food also I'm carless.
If you are careless, you can have 15 jobs and still be broke. Stop being careless, make up a budget, limit your expenses.
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I feel like this may be hindering me as in girls mostly wanna go out and do stuff atleast for the first date typically.
Being broke might be a pain in the ass but there is a LOT of free stuff you can do on dates. Also, if you fall for high maintenance women who demand a shitload without giving back, you might want to reconsider your choice of woman.
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I'm a decent looking guy and I'm really fit so in that way I don't have problem attracting them but moving it forward usually proves an issue cause I try not to spend to much money.
You seem to be preoccupied with money. You arent supposed to move attraction forward with money but with your own actions that arouse attraction in the girl.
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Have any of you guys gone through a similar situation and how did you deal with it? I just wna hear your experiances and ways of dealing with that.
Stop relying on money to impress girls. This way you will only become the paying clown and nothing else. I have seen guys spend $2000 on champagne in front of women and go home alone. Money matters but is not everything. If you are in a club and you are challenged to buy a girl a drink say
"you go first and i'll take the next round." its a classic one that can tell you a lot about a girl fairly quickly. Also if she does buy you a drink, you have time to figure out if you will stay long enough to invest money or just walk away. They do that to us all the time. If she keeps pushing you to buy her a drink, get her a glass of water. No joke. Its a drink after all.