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There was a young woman in another city that I really wanted to meet and have sex with. Ok, we weren't in a 5 year relationship, but she seemed really sweet on the phone, was sorta interested in me, yada yada. I texted her yesterday and somehow she is already moving in with a guy. We were talking last month. I was really frustrated at that moment in time because I rarely find girls that I really like. We can realize our frustrations and do something about it. It's not healthy to sit and stew in the frustration (like a break up).
The answer is not sleeping with a ton of girls. The answer is working on yourself and becoming the best well rounded person you can be. There are 1000 other things to do with yourself that will make you feel better. Women are only a part of a well rounded life. But there are many other things.
The problem with relationships is people get so dependent/reliant on that one other person that they lose track of other healthy things they should already be doing in life - such as social activities/friends, success, moving forward, eating well, working out, etc just to name a few.
Are you doing these things? Is there healthy balance in other parts of your life? My guess is no.
There is no end goal. The only end is death. In the face of death, life is much more colorful. To truly appreciate death means that you live every day without fear, and do everything that you want to do every single day. Depression seeps in the absence of not doing the aforementioned because an expressed person can not be depressed.
For your own health, you have to choose to live a meaningful life to the fullest. That means - moving forward every day, working on improving yourself every and day doing those things you love to do. If meeting new women every night is one of those things, it's a very nice skill to have.