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Last date got back home and start messaging
Why?
the phone is for setting up meets. If she's messaging you after a date, invite her over right there, or the next night.
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and we seem to be both definitely interested meet up again.. then a day later she says she doesn't feel the spark and dosent want to take things further.... What?
I love women like this. Direct and to the point.
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Am I going wrong in not going for the bang there and then that night.. am I being to nice ha? It's happened a couple of times recently... I've had some success online dating...
Cheers
You ran into an independent woman who's not afraid to tell you the truth. Unfortunately for you, these kinds of women want a DOMINANT male. Her bluntness is not rudeness. These are the words of a strong, sexually active woman who knows what she wants.
You failed to act in a dominant way, and failed to lead on the first date. hot, strong women will next you and not ever feel a twinge of anything.
With women like this, I invite them back to my place 45 minutes into the date, even before the kiss after making them pay for their own drinks. Notice how she respected your time with shocking honesty? These kind of women expect the same when it comes to seduction. Get to the point, be honest.