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"I could not get rid of the final barrier within myself"
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Author:  PUA_ [ Sat Mar 25, 2017 1:06 pm ]
Post subject:  "I could not get rid of the final barrier within myself"

Sometimes things go as planned and sometimes not. That's OK. But among the failed attempts there is one excuse that seems to pop up more often than others. Perhaps you have better understanding of what I am doing wrong than I do. What I am usually aiming for are friends in benefits relationships. If they turn out into something bigger, that's cool, if they end after one night and became one night stand, that's also cool. But this is my initial goal. I am experimenting with my ways of handling this and I am trying to learn on my mistakes. But there is one excuse that keep popping up more often than the other:

"I could not get rid of the final barrier within myself."

Note that sometimes it is regarding the sexual aspect of the relationship and sometimes regarding the emotional one (if we are talking about a start of proper relationship, not the friends with benefits).

Of course my first thought was maybe I was not escalating sexually enough and became too friendly with them. But on the other hand sometimes I was definitely escalating quickly without success and later heard the same comment (perhaps the escalation was just done in a wrong way). That would be the thing that I would be suspicious most of, but perhaps you have some other ideas. Does this sound like sexual escallation done wrong or something else? I would be happy to provide you with more data, but there is hardly anything that connects those situations? Sometimes this issue just occures and sometimes not and I think I behave almost on the same spectrum, so perhaps there is some specific type of girls that have a problem with how I am doing this and good thing would bo to figure out what type of girls is this and which aspact of my behaviour could be modified.

Author:  oceanx [ Mon Mar 27, 2017 9:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "I could not get rid of the final barrier within myself"

More data required. You're looking for FwBs but don't have any?

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