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I am going to take her to a hotel.
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I told her I'm a gentleman and that I will take it slow, but it still somehow seems to vague to some of these women?
If you really can't see the flaming contradiction here, I don't know what to tell you...
You are missing the point. Yes, this is a contradiction, and an intentional one. Most women agree to meet me when I say things like this to them. It doesn't actually matter if what I say contradicts once in a while because if a woman likes not only what I say, but how I say it and she is comfortable going to a hotel with me for sex, then I don't see the problem.
I want to let the woman know my intentions clearly, but I tell them I will take it slow "literally meaning have sex slowly not put sex off until after a couples dates". Even though I sometimes don't take it slow, it is something I say because women will often feel nervous when I tell them I want to take them to a hotel. I calm them down by saying I will go slow, which usually prevents them from rejecting me due to being scared off/nervous/etc.
A contradiction on the woman's part would be when she agreed to go with me to a
love hotel while saying something empty like: "let's just talk".
Now we both know very well that if she agreed to go to a love hotel with me, then she knows what she is signing up for. She is an adult and knows that people have sex at love hotels. If she truly only wanted to talk and cared about my contradiction, she would have either not met up with me or tried to meet me at a cafe or something. That didn't happen though. She let me take her to a love hotel to "just talk" (aka fucking her for 4 hours).