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| Author: | chi31fan35 [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 1:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Being Myself Around Hot Girls |
Just getting back into cold approach after a year and a half off. Other than just doing it, I am wondering how I get comfortable/be myself around hot women. I seem to have no issues with other people but the second I get around an attractive women it seems different. |
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| Author: | itchybrother [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 2:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Myself Around Hot Girls |
You know you're going to get replies here saying, "..just have to go out and do it. It'll get easier over time". Its the blind leading the blind here mostly. I'm the same way. 1-7s...no problem. 8-10s....freeze, nervous. From what I've read, it seems The Mystery Method has potential (befriend the group...show the group you're cool...then isolate the target). I'm dicing up the MM and using my own variant (not using magic tricks..) Cold approaching a 10....she's seen it her entire life. Its auto-reject. Again....you'll hear people say in here "..Hey, if you're a 5 you can cold approach a 10!" Good luck. 1 in 100 will work. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 2:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Myself Around Hot Girls |
The obvious answer is to stop placing so much value on looks. Treat a hot girl in the same casual, natural way you would treat a guy friend or a fat girl you are not very attracted to. Stop putting hot girls on a pedestal before you even know them. Rent shallow Hal off Netflix. Watch this; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j--KOLPD_lU |
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| Author: | chi31fan35 [ Wed Nov 09, 2016 8:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Myself Around Hot Girls |
Thank you. And disgusting. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Nov 09, 2016 8:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Myself Around Hot Girls |
The more uncomfortable you are in a social situation the more you feel like the people in the situation have something to contribute to you than you have to contribute to them. In the case of hot women.. You've still placed them above you, and as a result you're worried about what they're going to think of you. So you're uncomfortable because you're looking for a way to extract what they have to offer, while neglecting your ability to potentially offer anything to them. Not to mention this makes them uncomfortable. No one wants to hang around someone they think is only around them because they want something from them. How has your approaching been going for this last year? How much success have you had? |
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| Author: | WT Foxtrot [ Sat Dec 03, 2016 10:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Myself Around Hot Girls |
Keeping in mind that you can be your best self and it's just a matter of charting a path from here to there. The question is: What is it that keeps you from thinking that these women do not want you to be yourself while you fuck them? Edit: Bleh that was confusing. Why do you think these women do not want you to be yourself while you have sex / be in a relationship with them? The answer will be the identification of your sticking point/s. |
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| Author: | singsing [ Thu Dec 15, 2016 12:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being Myself Around Hot Girls |
"...talk to [women] as you would talk to anyone you aren’t trying to fuck."—Bill Maher |
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