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Two girls were entertained with me for a bit and I jumped straight into a number close. They claimed to have boyfriends.
Instead of trying to entertain girls like a street mime, notice something interesting about them, and then ask about that. Then LISTEN.
It has to come natural and you have to be comfortable so that you can either think clearly, or deliver without really thinking. That comes with time and practice.
It's crazy how if you randomly started a conversation with a person, whether male or female, about any given topic, you probably wouldn't be anxious and the natural talking points would just flow. But when you convince yourself that this person is a "set" or "HB", then you have all of this performance anxiety and outcome dependence. And when you are new its terrible, because its like you just want to get a number close so you can get out of the set, as if that were the actual goal.