| To be successful with women you have to understand what interests them. The fundimentals are rarely covered so most newbies lack a sense of direction when they enter uncharted territory...
To be successful with women you have to understand what interests them.
The 3 Main Objectives to gaining a ladies interest are:
Test 1 Confidence
Test 2 Humour
Test 3 The Challenge
Women will continuously test you, they are genetically and biologically wired to do so. Almost everything they do is based on these assessments, and they will continually test you to find out whether you are worthy.
This isn’t a negative once you see the positive implications (it means she thinks you might be worthy... hence the test), and have so much fun with their tests.
Women biologically have to be cautious because once their eggs are fertilized they are out of commission for a few years, so they can’t afford to make mistakes. They test for the most part subconsciously, and aren’t even aware that they do it. It is the survival of the fittest genetics that is the catalyst for their behaviour and yours.
To achieve this primal success, lets give you an understanding of each one of these Main Objectives.
Confidence is important because it shows that you value yourself (Trophy Mentality). It also separates you from the majority of men when it comes to attraction and dating.
Most men simply don’t have enough confidence in romance, and it is more important then looks or money to move up the primal pecking order.
With Confidence you will have the interest of lots of women, without it you will be left at home alone to further erode your self esteem.
You are assertive and will not be flustered by her changing plans, or testing you, because you are Confident.
Humour is a quality every man knows women look for, they hear it everyday, “I want a man that can make me laugh”. So they go about trying to be a stand up comic and wonder why they have fallen into the Friend Trap.
Humour is a state of being, women relate more to what’s behind the humour. A man who has humour is fun and playful, he isn’t an attention seeking whore.
Just like in the wild where play fighting between mammals is part of courtship, it pertains to us humans as well. Playful humour will have her laughing at everything you say or do, securing her interest.
Humour means you are FUN to be with!
The Challenge is the secret ingredient, it’s what has ladies up to all hours of the night, and what keeps you in their thoughts.
There is a reason why women are feline in nature. If you have ever taken a good long look at a cat and tried to figure them out you would see the similarities in behaviour with women.
When you first meet a cat it will look you over but keep its distance. If you try to get close too soon they will run. The trick to getting a cat to try to get your attention, and even demand attention (by the cat sitting on your lap), is to ignore it.
Women want what they can’t have....
The more you push them away the more they want you....
I’m sure you can remember countless women that you were not interested in, that would not leave you alone, because you were a Challenge to them.
By being a Challenge it shows that you are not needy or desperate, and that you are higher in the primal pecking order than Average Joe.
By the way women will only fall in love with someone as good as or better then their own self value, so being a Yes Man gets you the answer No.
Being the Challenge isn’t about being mean, it is about defining your worth. You can do this in many fun ways, which will demand her interest.
You are probably wondering “How do I attain the 3 Main Objectives?”
It is real simple, one answer attains all three.
Tease them...
in a Playful, Cocky, and Funny way.
Let me explain:
Tease them.... and you will exude Confidence just for saying it.
Tease them.... in a funny way and you will have Humour and will be fun to be with.
Tease them.... and you will show her that you are not needy or desperate, and you will be her next Challenge.
As children in the playground we naturally played the primal attraction game. If we liked a girl, we would tease her, make fun of her, pull her hair, and generally do what we were genetically programmed to do, and it worked.
At some point in our social conditioning we stopped doing it. It is that playful nature that brought out those prime emotions, and what generates interest in women.
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