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Author:  griff_199 [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 3:54 pm ]
Post subject:  List of IOIS

Right..Im not sure but anywhere on this site is ther like a list or a post full of IOIS?

I mean we all know the most common IOI's
-Playing with hair
-Scratching the back of the wrist
-Squeezing your hand back
-Starting a conversation after youve stopped talking

Them sorta things.
But what other Solid or possible IOIS are there?

I think one post with loads on would make it easier when looking back at a sarge and wondering if an action of hers was a possible IOI

Author:  Majishan [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 5:48 pm ]
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calling me SEXY MOTHAFUCKER!! YUP! LOL!

Author:  L.H. [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 7:29 pm ]
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- When she starts asking questions about you
- If she leans in when you lean back
- Smiles a lot
- Puts on lip stick/balm/gloss in front of you

Author:  Drakelet [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 8:49 pm ]
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* She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking
* She giggles
* She touches you
* She looks back and glances at you repeatedly every minute or so
* She tosses her hair (to see if you will look)
* If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second
* She smiles at you
* She stands nearby (proximity)
* She interrupts your conversation from nearby, or laughs at something you said
* While walking by, she turns her body towards you or brushes against you
* She says something to her friend then they both giggle
* She asks you for a light, or the time, or in any way initiates a conversation
* While you're talking to her group, she is particularly talkative (to get your attention)
* She asks you for your name
* She asks you your age [make her guess]
* She compliments you
* She is playful and tries to challenge you
* She's disagreeing but laughing
* She's punching your arm but laughing
* She uses nicknames for you
* She plays with her hair while talking to you
* When sitting next to you her leg touches yours
* She repeatedly touches you in any way
* She asks if you have a girlfriend
* She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back
* She holds eye contact when she speaks with you for longer periods of time
* She avoids mentioning her boyfriend
* If it comes up that you like something, she mentions that she likes it too or needs someone to show her how
* When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction
* She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she's looking
* She introduces you to friends
* She buys you a drink
* She calls you a player or a heartbreaker
* On her way out, she re-approaches to tell you that she is leaving [get her number]
* On your way out, she asks you where you are going [invite her]
* She returns your calls
* She invents reasons to be near you, interact with you, or have isolation with you
* She mirrors your gestures

Author:  jurupa [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 9:20 pm ]
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- If her legs are cross her knees will be pointing in your direction
- She will keep constant eye contact
- She will ignore her friends that are next to her
- Will ignore her cell unless her job is an on call type of job
- Will match your speech speed
- Will lower her voice
- She will fix her clothing to show off her assets or have her posture show off her assets.
- She will act cute
- Will be excited or have high energy
- She will show her palms to you and have open body langauge
- She will try to get your attention or at least be apart of the conversation you are having if you are talking to other people.

Author:  vandal66 [ Wed Jan 07, 2009 7:42 am ]
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when a girl compliments u on an article of clothing or whatever, they're attracted to you. its Mystery's thing:
HB: Hey I like your [insert item here]
PUA: No you don't, you're attracted to me

Author:  Weasley [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 2:35 am ]
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My favorite one to use is to squeeze her hand and see if she squeezes back.

Author:  F@nt@st1c On3 [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:54 pm ]
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nice IOIS i think you these can be used widely for lot of women..gj

Author:  FNB [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 1:21 pm ]
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Because noticing and understanding Indicators of Interest (IoI) is a very vital part of the seduction process could we put a "Sticky" mark on these IoIs so that all can notice this discussion and learn about IoIs?

One thing that I wonder about these IoIs is that girls give IoIs almost constantly. Do they do that to all guys? Even if she only sees him as a friend? I meen almost all girls seem to all day long give IoIs. For example almost all girls seems to keep constant eye contact, be touchy feely or stand nearby (proximity). So my question is that do girls give IoIs to guys they see only as friends as well?

I would say that one can actually feel if she is attracted to you or not. This is something that one just knows in just 1 minute.

Author:  FNB [ Thu Jan 08, 2009 1:25 pm ]
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Quote:
Will ignore her cell unless her job is an on call type of job
I don't know if it's my English or something but what do you mean by that?

Author:  Jon Paul [ Sun Sep 06, 2009 12:29 am ]
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Quote:
I don't know if it's my English or something but what do you mean by that?
it means that she cant ignore her cell if her job requires her to be called into work by calling her.


Theres some useful shiz on this

Author:  Gabstur [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 6:34 am ]
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Quote:
Because noticing and understanding Indicators of Interest (IoI) is a very vital part of the seduction process could we put a "Sticky" mark on these IoIs so that all can notice this discussion and learn about IoIs?

One thing that I wonder about these IoIs is that girls give IoIs almost constantly. Do they do that to all guys? Even if she only sees him as a friend? I meen almost all girls seem to all day long give IoIs. For example almost all girls seems to keep constant eye contact, be touchy feely or stand nearby (proximity). So my question is that do girls give IoIs to guys they see only as friends as well?

I would say that one can actually feel if she is attracted to you or not. This is something that one just knows in just 1 minute.
Thats a good question...can someone answer him? :D

Author:  Angelina [ Mon Jun 28, 2010 3:57 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:
Because noticing and understanding Indicators of Interest (IoI) is a very vital part of the seduction process could we put a "Sticky" mark on these IoIs so that all can notice this discussion and learn about IoIs?

One thing that I wonder about these IoIs is that girls give IoIs almost constantly. Do they do that to all guys? Even if she only sees him as a friend? I meen almost all girls seem to all day long give IoIs. For example almost all girls seems to keep constant eye contact, be touchy feely or stand nearby (proximity). So my question is that do girls give IoIs to guys they see only as friends as well?

I would say that one can actually feel if she is attracted to you or not. This is something that one just knows in just 1 minute.
Thats a good question...can someone answer him? :D
Personally I do find myself giving IOIs to friends or men in general even I'm not attracted to them. It is unconscious and its part of displaying a feminine personality. But there are some differences. First, if I'm not attracted and I like him (as a friend) but I feel desired by him, I start touching my hair, giggle, or fidgeting my clothes. But things I don't do if I'm not attracted are touching him too much, proximity, much EC, etc. I can touch him in the shoulder in friendly way or punch arm but I wouldn't like to touch his leg. I would move my leg far from him. Or if he touches my back or waist I will move, but if I like him I would stay there. I think the simple fact of being desired by a man triggers some of these IOIs, but not all of course.

Author:  zebraG [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 8:24 pm ]
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One that so few people seem to know about: check out the feet!

3 people standing in a group, all equally interested in each other, the left foot will point at the left person and the right foot points to the right person. Basically, they make an arc of interest. Add a 4th person and the arc includes the new person. If the person on the left is now not of interest, the arc will point just to the other 2. If they're only interested in you, the feet will both be parallel and point towards you.

No one realises they do it; it's great!

NB. Applies to ANY groups of standing people.

Author:  mapner [ Mon Oct 11, 2010 2:32 am ]
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One that hasn't been mentioned is using your name. Everyone remembers the 'if they ask your name' IOI, but it's also a big signal if they start using your name after finding it out. Obviously this applies more for women you've just met that evening.

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