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Pierce 007 | PostPosted: Sun Nov 21, 2010 9:04 pm | |
Offline | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Sun Oct 03, 2010 9:38 am Posts: 229 | Ok from my experience since starting this after two or so months of AA decensitising (plus after I have dived in briskly with'Do you want to go for a coffee and they reply 'But I hardly know you' Ive found I need simple yet effective stuff that I can do without thinking and getting to know each other better first with a smidge of comfort attraction building and it goes like this-
Get self in right state by not expecting a relationship or anything before I start and imagining Ive just saved town from meteor strike(kasabian psyche up)
Hi or Morning Or Afternoon (depending on situation)
hey thats a nice jacket/ hat/ item of her personel choice
then say 'Hey I think it might look better on you with top button undone' or something to make her think you are helping her to look better
then I dont know if your interested but I play the drums in a rock band and were getting pretty good- do you like ACDC?
If she says yes then 'great so are you from round here?'
If no then 'oh your loss we had a great time playing a gig at...... the crowd were really going for it'
Then I get a bit stuck just wondered what stage this was at and how to move on from here?
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Prancy | PostPosted: Sun Nov 21, 2010 9:34 pm | |
Offline | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Nov 17, 2010 2:09 pm Posts: 5 | Sorry for me it sounds like your desperate. a standar "Desperate" Move
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jcgurango | PostPosted: Sun Nov 21, 2010 9:47 pm | |
Offline | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Nov 10, 2010 9:35 am Posts: 14 | You're just throwing yourself at her. Cat string theory-follow it. _________________ Everything I'm not made me everything I am/
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Pierce 007 | PostPosted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 5:02 pm | |
Offline | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Sun Oct 03, 2010 9:38 am Posts: 229 | Thanks for replies - a opinion opener seems to be a better convo starter as it gets there opinion etc but I find it difficult to imagine a cat string theory type interaction any starters?
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