The issue you're probably having is that you're not qualifying the women you're approaching. You're approaching from a stand point of " I want something from you" vs " I have something for you, but I need to evaluate you to see if you qualify to receive it". When a man approaches from the first perspective women can easily treat that guy like he's a begger asking for money. The other guy has his every world held onto because the women are after what he's potentially offering.
This comes in two parts:
1) Knowing what you have to offer; whether " direction, protection, emotional stability, spiritual understanding, guidance, a sense of purpose, knowledge, wisdom, an elevated level of confidence, and self worth for them, passion, someone to follow, someone to trust, someone to lean on, great sex, love, etc. etc.
2) Knowing what type of attractive woman you're interested in.. Example: One with few sexual partners, one that reads, one that has a great relationship with her family, one that loves children, goes to church, has few friends, never parties etc.
And so when you approach women knowing what you have to offer it allows you to approach with confidence. And you always have something to say after the opener because you will be finding ways to direct the conversation toward what it is you're looking for in a woman. I.e. finding creative ways to ask her about her family, hobbies etc. All so you can see if she's fitting for you.
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