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I understood that if I were to make progress with my pickup, I would need to qualify girls. Sure, it's easy for guys to shoot these types of questions, but when the girl fires the question back at the guy, our initial response isn't as Alpha as we thought it would be. That said, I came up with some qualifiers a girl would probably throw and want to know how you guys would answer:
• "Do you see yourself as an introvert or an extrovert?"
• "What are you looking for in a relationship?"
• "What's your biggest turn on/off?"
• "What's the most important trait to have in a bf?"
• "Do you go to a lot of parties?"
When confronted with these questions, I tend to answer directly. Honestly, my answers would be ehh at most. Maybe adding some sarcasm and C/F would work to my benefit, but as I said before, I'm more interested in how you guys would tackle these qualifiers.
I am seriously trying to wrap my mind at how we've gotten to the point of trying to figure out how to answer a question in an alpha way. First, let's throw the word alpha out the door because it is causing you to over think things. Instead, let's focus on how to be interesting when you're talking to a girl. The most simple thing that you can do when answering questions and be interesting at the same time is answer and elaborate on your answer.
Uninteresting way to answer:
Her: Do you go to a lot of parties?
You: Not really.
That's direct and boring.
More interesting:
Her: Do you go to a lot of parties?
You: Not really. Lately, I've been really focused on my work and I've been looking into starting my own business. How about you? Do you party a lot?
Now you've given her some detail on your answer, maybe impressed her a little bit, and you are showing that you are interested in her as well. She may even want to impress you with her answer. None of that has to do with giving her an alpha answer. Once she gives you an answer, capitalize on it. If it allows for a flirtatious response by you, is actually impressive and deserves a compliment, or she is demonstrating that two of you are on the same level then take advantage of it.
Don't try to wow her with your answers because eventually it will become obvious of what you're doing.