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Haha good advice
No... Just... No.
Jesus Christ this community is cancerous at times.
You do not have "one itis". In fact, one itis means nothing.
Listen, the interesting part of your question was: "At what point do I ask about the other guy?"
Never.
It's not your business what she does in her spare time, and it's not her business what you do in yours. Look, dont go dating multiple girls just to get back at her, and dont stop seeing other women because you think it would help your chances with her - in both cases you are reacting to her... She owns you.
Breathe. Everything works out as it should. At some point you'll both start to like each other more than others and you just won't want to see other people. In that case, man up and ask her to be your girlfriend. Or, your relationship will never progress past a sexual one, and you'll have an awesome girl that's low maintenance that you call every so often and you fool around and its just good times for all (you'd be surprised how often those exist).
Point is, don't put yourself in a box. Some guy wrote a book called the Game and then took the feeling of excitement we all feel at seeing a beautiful woman and called it "approach anxiety" and now all of a sudden millions of guys around the world have "really bad AA!". Bunch of guys told you you have one-itis and all of a sudden you get nervous and start to overthink... FUCK.
Just breathe man... Do what you want to do, listen to your gut. You've got this!
With love and respect
Mack
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