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I've found every concept in pickup, to revolve around the idea of how women naturally are attracted to the alpha male.
Anyone have any thoughts?
1) Being attractive to women and creating attraction in women are two very separate things. (good for us).
2) for men, attraction is an on/off switch. we are either attracted to a woman or we are not.
3) for women, attraction is an ongoing process. if she isn't attracted to a man yet, doesn't mean she wont be attracted to him in the next 5 minutes.
4) certain techniques, attraction switches and attributes generate attraction in women, without her resistance, because it happens on an unconscious level.
5) main bullet points: Emotional Impact, Sexual Frames, Kino, High Value, Backwards Rationalization By Getting Her To Invest Or By Escalating On Her Physically, Emotional Overload: Positive And Negative Emotions In A Short Period Of Time.
6) Mindset: "I Control Her Attraction Levels For me"
now, i want to get specific and write the things that i think are the most important tools to generate HARD attraction in girls. and i dont mean that basic "attraction" i mean HARD and SOLID attraction.
Qualities to have
1) having a powerful frame
2) being calm
3) having sexual confidence
4) being a leader
if you can internalize these 4 things, the outer game will become relatively easy and you wont even need lots of techniques to generate attraction, just because you already have the 4 most important qualities that flip her attraction switches. they generate attraction in women beyond her conscious awareness because those 4 qualities go straight into her primal brain. and primal brain operates by itself without the conscious mind. even if she thinks you are ugly as hell, she will still get attracted to you, just because her primal brain thinks that you are a good choice for her survival.
Outer Game
1) triangular gazing
2) push-pull (show interest, show disinterest)
3) challenging and teasing.
4) sexual frames
5) kino
if you can have those 4 qualities and at the same time apply these 5 techniques, you will without any doubt generate that HARD attraction we were talking about. in conclusion, internalize those 9 elements and you wont have any thoughts like, "how in the world am i going to attract her" in your mind, just because of the fact that you have a field tested, proven, surefire way to generate attraction in women.