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Author:  Madrabaj [ Mon May 29, 2017 4:44 am ]
Post subject:  HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

I've f closed this HB10 5 or 6 times already.

Last Thursday she flakes on another f-fest by claiming that her best friend and her bf broke up, and she needs to comfort her.
My reply:
"Next time then"
She tells me that she's free Sunday, and I agree.

I get a text Sunday morning: "I'm sick! Drunk way too much last night - have a head cold now".

I roll my eyes and ask straight up if she's still up for tonight, and she says "well I dont want to get you sick".

I've ignored her the rest of the day. She sends me texts:
" Hope work is good today! xoxo"
then
"Hey lovely, just wanted to apologize for how flakey i've been lately. New job and everything has run me down. I hope to see you as soon as i'm feeling better. Thinking about you! xoxo Goodnight!"

I ignored this as well. I've already nexted her in my mind.

How did I handle it thus far? Should I respond? How should I move forward? I actually really like this chick, and want to just keep up the fun, but don't want this flakey shit anymore.

Thanks!

Author:  puaninja [ Mon May 29, 2017 7:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

That's not a serious issue. No point in posting about it.

Author:  JackZero [ Mon May 29, 2017 7:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

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That's not a serious issue. No point in posting about it.
Why would you say that? He actually had questions about how he was dealing with this. He's playing games to not lose the girl while putting what he wants on hold. How is it not a serious issue not worthy of posting?

Author:  Madrabaj [ Mon May 29, 2017 9:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

Thanks @JackZero

Today: "What are you up to tonight cutie?"

Still haven't responded.

Any input?

Author:  Pilgrim Miester [ Mon May 29, 2017 9:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

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Thanks @JackZero

Today: "What are you up to tonight cutie?"

Still haven't responded.

Any input?
I think at this point it maybe time to cut contact, and date other women. The chances are she's seeing other guys and if you chase her she will ignore you.

Next her and leave door open. If she contacts you in a few weeks, happy days, if not then no big deal.

Author:  Arch Stanton [ Mon May 29, 2017 10:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

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Last Thursday she flakes on another f-fest by claiming that her best friend and her bf broke up, and she needs to comfort her.
My reply:
"Next time then"
She tells me that she's free Sunday, and I agree.

I get a text Sunday morning: "I'm sick! Drunk way too much last night - have a head cold now".

I roll my eyes and ask straight up if she's still up for tonight, and she says "well I dont want to get you sick".
You: Cool, I don't want your germs, either, lol.

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I've ignored her the rest of the day.
Why?

Ignoring her makes it look like you're mad you didn't get laid. Guys who get laid don't get mad about not getting laid.
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She sends me texts:
" Hope work is good today! xoxo"
then
"Hey lovely, just wanted to apologize for how flakey i've been lately. New job and everything has run me down. I hope to see you as soon as i'm feeling better. Thinking about you! xoxo Goodnight!"

I ignored this as well. I've already nexted her in my mind.
lol. Why? You're acting like this is a serious relationship. She's just a hook up right now. Chill out.


You: Hey, thanks. I'm looking forward to next time as well.


Which responses convey chill indifference and a man who has options: your cold, angry silence, or the casual replies?

Author:  puaninja [ Wed May 31, 2017 1:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

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That's not a serious issue. No point in posting about it.
Why would you say that? He actually had questions about how he was dealing with this. He's playing games to not lose the girl while putting what he wants on hold. How is it not a serious issue not worthy of posting?
Anything that starts off with someone banging a 10 multiple times is always going to be questionable. But if he is lucky enough to have been banging this 10 the whole time, then its just a matter of the fling fizzling out. I mean you would think someone who supposedly f-closes 10s would know that.

Author:  JackZero [ Wed May 31, 2017 3:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

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That's not a serious issue. No point in posting about it.
Why would you say that? He actually had questions about how he was dealing with this. He's playing games to not lose the girl while putting what he wants on hold. How is it not a serious issue not worthy of posting?
Anything that starts off with someone banging a 10 multiple times is always going to be questionable. But if he is lucky enough to have been banging this 10 the whole time, then its just a matter of the fling fizzling out. I mean you would think someone who supposedly f-closes 10s would know that.
You have to take the 10 thing with a grain of salt when it comes to anyone. Most of the guys who say they get 10's are usually trying to validate themselves because anyone with sense knows that is just their individual opinion. This may be a new situation for the OP, so you should give him the benefit of the doubt. You'll end up figuring out the guys that are forum time wasters.

Author:  oceanx [ Wed May 31, 2017 10:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

And of course, my 10 could be his 6 and his 10 could be my 6.

Author:  Arch Stanton [ Wed May 31, 2017 2:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

Come on, bros. A 10 is a 10. Maybe at worst someone else's 8.

6's are fat.

The obesity rate in the U.S. is making it even easier to see differences.

Author:  JackZero [ Wed May 31, 2017 3:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

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Come on, bros. A 10 is a 10. Maybe at worst someone else's 8.

6's are fat.
The number system is only good for describing how attractive that you think a woman is. To try to standardize it for everyone is silly. If a guy likes bigger women, he's not going to rate them as a 6 like you would and likely wouldn't rate your 10 even as high as an 8. Trying to force your number range on another guy is a waste of time.

Author:  Arch Stanton [ Wed May 31, 2017 5:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

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If a guy likes bigger women, he's not going to rate them as a 6 like you would and likely wouldn't rate your 10 even as high as an 8.
Any guy who likes "bigger women" only does so because he can't get hot women.

Author:  JackZero [ Wed May 31, 2017 5:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

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If a guy likes bigger women, he's not going to rate them as a 6 like you would and likely wouldn't rate your 10 even as high as an 8.
Any guy who likes "bigger women" only does so because he can't get hot women.
Not true. A lot of what men find attractive is based on what has influenced them. I have a buddy that likes bigger women and turns down ones that most guys think are hotter. If you go back and look at his female influences, you can see why he likes those types. Bottom line is that guys like what they like and just because you can't understand that logic doesn't mean it's because they can't get hotter women.

Author:  neo87 [ Wed May 31, 2017 5:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

She's flaking with some bs... Prob another guy or she's just that interested. I would next.. Just because even if she schedules something with you again you have no idea at this point what she'll use for an excuse. The worst flake is the flake who is telling you she is missing you while giving you bs excuses when it comes time to meet. Would be better if she were acting uninterested and flaking than interested and flaking.

Author:  Arch Stanton [ Wed May 31, 2017 6:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB 10 Flakefest - How to Respond?

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She's flaking with some bs... Prob another guy

All single hot women have several guys on rotation. Could be a guy they're fucking, a guy they want to fuck, a guy they're only emotionally attached to, etc.

When you show up as a dominant, high value male, she will let these men fade away.

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