Juice Wayne wrote:
maybe i can't analyze this because im the one involved but, we went out to lunch both having to leave at 2. we just hung out ate and walked around. At the end of it she hugged me and body locked again and I asked for a kiss. She said no but we kissed anyways. Now I'm at a blank when it comes to moves.
Honestly don't have a problem dropping her and moving on to the next one but I wouldn't mind growing with her if there's still life there. Help jack zero kenobi, you're my only hope.
Honestly, I don't think you've done much wrong except for the following:
1. You walked away the moment she shown her vulnerability
2. You talk too much when it should be actions. Asking what's wrong when she shows resistance. Asking her for a kiss during the lunch date.
3. You agreed to a lunch date that had time restrictions.
I think the third thing that I listed is possibly the worst sin. She came back even though you talked to much and stopped contacting her. I'm pretty sure that she came back because she wanted to make sure that something was there between the two of you. You both having to leave to do whatever doesn't do much to ensure that the sexual attraction is still there especially with a date in a public place.
What you need to do is ask her out again. Invite her to your place for a movie and buttered popcorn. Warm her up with affection and over the evening increase that level of affection.