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sort of want to offer to take her out again and make it upto her but then I might sound like more of a noob!
Do you think thats exactly what she wants? Im surprised by some of the responses to be honest.
Now, in your opinion why should you have paid for everything? including her train expenses? Because she's a woman. has a vagina, and is bringing what to the interaction that you aren't equally bringing? Theres nothing wrong with treating someone out, but lets no be ridicules here. She agreed to come, agreed to pay for the drinks that she did, and agreed to go home with you, but then wants to bitch about it in retrospect? She's just giving you shit. If its not this, its something else. Im more so surprised that you accepted that behavior from her and didn't check her on it. She took the train, and you paid for the "MAJORITY" of the drinks. You also paid for the pool. I believe that makes you guys square.
Why is it you want to go out with her again? Taking all of this into consideration... Because you feel like you didn't paid her enough for her time the first date? How much is your time worth? Its all about value man. Why are we subject to this tradition that a man should pay for everything in a world in which we're both making money. Now if she couldn't afford it that's another thing. But if a woman can afford to contribute(which she clearly could) she will have to contribute. Im not following tradition over logic. When you pay for everything(tradition aside) what you're saying is we are not equal because I'm paying for your time. Im not for women getting the best of both worlds out here. You wanted to ability to make money, now you got it, so take on some of the responsibilities men had to take on at the time you couldn't make money.
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