Persistence.. attractive or not ?



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PostPosted: Tue Aug 30, 2016 3:33 am 
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Hello people,

I have always had this question.. is being persistent good or bad for your game?

You talk to a cute girl, you make her smile, she flirts, she gives you her phone number, she says she will be glad to go out on a date with you.. but then she gets colder, she doesn't reply to texts, she cancels the date 1 hour before meeting, etc. Have you ever been on a similar situation?

I tried to call her and arrange a new date, after asking: "Ok, so when are your free?"

I know that being needy is the worst, but also being persistent could show self confidence, right?

So where is the line between these two? In one hand, if you don´t have scarcity mindset, you move on to the next and that´s it, but on the other hand girls like to test guys and play hard to get..

This is confusing.. thank you in advance for your input. :)


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 30, 2016 3:49 am 
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You talk to a cute girl, you make her smile, she flirts, she gives you her phone number, she says she will be glad to go out on a date with you.. but then she gets colder, she doesn't reply to texts, she cancels the date 1 hour before meeting, etc.
I was sort of on this subject in a PM with someone else earlier. Here's what I normally see when guys get into this situation:

1. They text for no reason just because they are excited about this 1 girl and
2. They arranged to go out with this girl over 4 or 5 days in the future.

Overtexting speaks for itself, so I won't address that too much. That coupled with arranging dates far out into the future, the girl loses her excitement for you. She gets a sense of who she thinks you are and gets used to you without any physicality involved and you become less of the sexy guy and more of the friend/orbiter. The advantage you have during the date is that you can physically escalate and that's what's exciting.

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Yeah, you are right.. it´s been a week already.. I´m pretty sure that if I get the date I will make her change her mind.. But maybe I won´t even have that chance.. I didn´t arrange a date right away because I didn´t want to look needy.. I´m not sure how to be persistent without looking needy. This girl is super cute.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2016 7:58 am 
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Persistence is sexy when coming from a place of confidence.

It's sexy when it communicates "I know you like me, quit the act". It's repelling when it communicates "Please like me, I'm trying so hard".

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