If you're worried about coming across as needy it is only because you actually are. Women are intuitive and guys have to learn that you can not hide what it is you feel. You can only let go, or own it. So not texting because you don't want to seem needy is good only because it gives you time to let go a bit. If you text in that moment of emotion it will further communicate that which you're trying to avoid.
To me it sounds like she's started to pick up on your desperation a bit. All of our thoughts are sub-communicated into our body language, our frame/vibe/ and just overall behavior. Women are looking at things like that. As guys we're more linear. Taking in one thing at a time, they're taking in everything. So just be aware of that.
A woman wants to be with a guy who she feels is "better" than her. Having the ability to elevate her(emotionally). Turning her into a queen because he's a king. When you pedestal a woman in the way you have pedestaled you're saying without saying it that you believe she is above you. And if you believe she is above you subconsciously how could you possibly elevate her? And if you can't elevate her, there will not be any attraction.
So you're doing the write thing and I think you should hold on as long as it takes. Not just for this girl, but to further establish your character. You have to learn to walk, while still having the option not to. I wrote about this here:
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I encourage you to read that. Stay strong and hold tight. You can get higher quality women, you just have to sacrifice the desire to be with lower ones to get there.
Let me know if you have anymore questions.
Peace & Love
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