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Aero-el | PostPosted: Thu Oct 17, 2013 4:16 am | |
Offline | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Sep 06, 2013 6:29 am Posts: 11 | I'm curious as to how far ahead of the next date do you plan? If there's a band playing on Sunday and you ask the guy/girl out on Friday evening, would you think it's too rushed?
What do you think is the ideal? I'm going to guess one week, but what do you all think?
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Mattr1984 | PostPosted: Fri Oct 18, 2013 4:46 am | |
Offline | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Mon Apr 08, 2013 2:16 am Posts: 240 | Anywhere up to a week in advance.
There is nothing wrong with saying "heading to xy tonight, come along!!"
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Aero-el | PostPosted: Sat Oct 19, 2013 10:17 pm | |
Offline | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Sep 06, 2013 6:29 am Posts: 11 | She responded tonight on the night of the event with:
Her: "Sorry I’m just now responding to u. Its been a crazy week and i’m not gonna be able to make it tonight. Sorry. See u Mon."
This Monday we’re hanging out with friends; it’s not just her and me. So I don’t think it counts as a counteroffer.
So it’s obvious she’s not that into me anymore and I think my next step is to pull back until she starts to show interest again? What did you think of that text? Of course, I know the bottom line is: she didn't off an alternative date and there's probably no-return on this one.
What would YOU do in this scenario? Pursue again or cut the cord?
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