it is the exact same as gaming a girl without a boyfriend, you already seem to have the concept down, the only difference from gaming a girl with a boyfriend and one without is when the girl uses the boyfriend as a barrier, you dissmiss the boyfriend from the frame (boyfriend destroy) < disqualify just like you would with any excuse, and offer discression to her, and lead as much as possible (lower her asd), just keep disqualifying the excuses like you would with any other girls and looking for that compliance while escalating
the girl is either interested in cheating, or isn't, attraction does not = she will cheat, attraction is easy as fuck to get and doesn't even mean a girl without a boyfriend will sleep with you, just because you are attracted to a girl who talks to you, does that mean you will end up sleeping with her?, just because a girl flirts with you that you are attracted to while you have a girlfriend, does that mean you will cheat on your girlfriend? if you answered yes to both questions, do you think it is that way for every other guy as well? the answer is no
but anyways, this girl gave you her number, it is now time for you to test compliance further, she either comes out or flakes, either way don't expect her to agree to anything that frames this as her fault, just take note of her passive compliance, and escalate, continue leading, make it 100% your fault, don't brag about her, or tell any of your friends, keep it a complete secret, no one is to know, be discreet as possible, moms the word, offer her no strings attached sex, don't be the guy that wants to be the boyfriend, be the secret hookup on the side guy
if she doesn't screen well, don't waste your time on her, just cut yourself off before you get needy and develope onitis, this situation is not different, she is not special, don't over invest yourself in something not worth investing in
also you don't have to toss out a witty disqualifier for every time she bring up the boyfriend, ''ok'' works fine and continueing after without addressing the boyfriend to remove him from the frame,
or ''listen I don't want to be your boyfriend'' also works fine, you just have to get the point accross that you are not interested in making her your girlfriend, and her having a boyfriend is disqualified from being an issue for you (you have already done this obviously, but if she continues to use it as a wall, eventually you are going to run out of ''witty comebacks'')
GOOD LUCK
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