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Author:  msbeebz [ Sun Jun 10, 2012 2:55 am ]
Post subject:  TEXT GAME and FREEZE OUT that WORKS!!!

So I've had an ongoing situation with a HB10 ive bedded twice, who is difficult...
and this is what I've learned

If she is ignoring your texts or not giving you enough attention you cannot just ignore back....that doesn't work but nor does chasing. This chick was meeting up with me when it was convenient for her, and then ignoring me when she had what she thought were better options. She dangled a carrot for a couple days recently saying things like "I'll call you this afternoon" and not doing it, which lead to "I'm coming over to your house - are you still at home?" and not showing...

So I had to freeze her out, but you must freeze out AFTER initiating, instead of just waiting. I baited correctly, but I chased with my texts, which is why she flaked. But its no use freezing out after that, it doesn't work. You must start over...

- pretend like nothing happened and BAIT BAIT BAIT again. Bait with something super creative and exciting that involves a group of people, like its no big deal if she comes along or not... the idea is you want her to flake and not come, if that's what she's been doing.

-If she does come, be on top game and ignore her for the most part and pay attention to other girls.
- If she sends you a text declining, do not respond. and wait.
- If she flakes on you, either by not responding, or saying she's going to come and then not showing, just wait.

You did something super fun, she's going to text you...just wait. When she does text you:

- Respond only with very short answers, shorter than hers.
- Make sure your responses are not completely closed. They should be almost closed, but open enough that she COULD respond if she wanted to, but doesn't have to respond.
- Make her wait between texts.

Playing this game, resulted in changing the dynamic from her pretty much ignoring me unless it was at her convenience, to desiring me, and trying to get my attention.

the last text I got from her was

"I hope we get a chance to hang before you leave-i'm having a dinner party sunday"

I'm still figuring out how to respond to her weak ass indirect attempt at asking me out. I'll post more on how it goes....

Thoughts? Feedback?

Author:  laidbacklover [ Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:58 am ]
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Stop thinking so much. Be in the moment.

You've already slept with her just be non needy or validation seeking.

As long as you have that mindset you can text whatever you want.

Author:  AFC AzA [ Sun Jun 10, 2012 4:57 am ]
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Stop thinking so much. Be in the moment.

You've already slept with her just be non needy or validation seeking.

As long as you have that mindset you can text whatever you want.
yeah.... I only worked on my inner game for like three months so I was so confident and in my own reality and believed that, but thats not kinda true for me.... i have no idea :?

Author:  msbeebz [ Sun Jun 10, 2012 6:06 am ]
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Yes to being in the moment! Obviously.... here's the thing though...
just being relaxed and doing whatever doesn't lead to girls chasing after me so thinking has to come into play somewhere here, to help direct the natural actions.

This girl is a 10, and I know she's using me as her backup guy, because when she disappears she's with someone else (that I heard about down the grapevine). Its a learning experience for me to figure out how to improve my chances of not being the backup.... ya know? I'm not attached to what happens with her. But i'd love to get her chasing me and wanting me as her bf... lol

Author:  Hsa-mid [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 3:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Similar...

Hi Msbeebz,

I know this post is really old, just wondering how it went?

I have a very similar situation with a girl right now, I froze her out recently (lots of detail in the freeze), but she has been trying to make convo again today. I have bedded her about 5-6 times in the last 6 months, but still feel to be in your situation. Like being the second choice. How to play it if she texts me (bbm) and asks general questions?

Hope we can discuss this further... :lol:

Author:  xXcruxXx [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 7:43 pm ]
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I just realized I also did this with a HB. It definitely works. This is solid text game for re-initiating.

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