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It's a commuter school, so I actually don't have anything close to exciting weekends. Most of my friends have moved out in the last year so my social circle is incredibly small as is. I really don't have any good exciting stories to tell. I've found my best way to dhv in the past was by humor, since I don't have many stories. Unfortunately, sometimes I just don't have any good material and I fizzle out quickly.
I should also add that as these group projects were explained to us, they will be done during class time and thus there wont be any need to do anything more outside of class. That would sort of put a monkey wrench in this plan.
I see some problems with this.
You gotta open up your social circle more. Not just for social proof, but it'll help u get out and meet more girls in your area directly/indirectly. I can see how doing the group project during class time throws a wrench into getting her phone number, but there will probably be other projects as you go during the semester that will require u to do some outside work, so just be ready for it then.
I was going to a commuter school too when I met my ex, so I know it can work. Don't keep coming up with reasons why it won't work. It will! You just gotta keep two things in mind that've already been mentioned.
1. You have the whole semester ahead of you, so don't rush
2. If you act like an AFC around her the whole sememster though, that's what she's going to think of you. So don't get into the ljbf zone with her, or any girl you're trying to talk to for that matter.
Use you're joking around and stuff to open her up a bit, then try to spoon feed her a couple stories or something that DHV (I know you got SOME stories to share).