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So first understand girls in India always overwhelmingly acts surprised and why not? this is unnatural for them.
How do i handle this?
If the approach happens to be on the street, I always follow up with "you caught my attention" and immediately carry on the conversation. Most likely I say "what brings you here?" and by this time i am walking with her in the original direction she was going to.
In cases of coffee shops or book stores, etc I ignore their reaction and continue with what I had opened her with initially. Most likely my openers are an observation about her. After the opener gauging her response I say what I find funny for my self amusement and add some flirtatious expression to it.
Real life example:
I enter starbucks and sit besides a girl who is on her laptop. As soon as I keep my bag, I say hi to the girl and leave to get my coffee. (I always do this to let her know I am here and give her some space to get comfortable with my presence)
I come back and start working on my laptop. After 20 mins or so, she looks up to take a breather(I always look for spaces like this where i can interrupt, this is called social calibration).
I make an observatory statement "You are so focus, I always get distracted easily especially when women are around me".
She laughs but by now she knows my intentions, I never hide my intentions.
She engages me back "so you come often here"
To which I reply "Yes I do, I come here to hit on women"..Laughs both ways.
I continue "Come out with me for walk in the evening"
She shoots back "I have a boyfriend", (wow I love these ones)
I look at her amusingly "don't worry I only offers secret affairs".
Now she is speechless and silence prevails between us. I am amuse as I have been there before.
After few minutes of silence where she goes back to her work, she re engages in small talk. (women will always re engage if she is interested)
We leave together to our respective destinations, exchange numbers, and we meet again.
I am not kidding next time she meets me, She mentions things are not well between her boyfriend and her.
Who am I?
https://wayofwomen.quora.com/Who-am-I