Good on u for taking action!!!!!!!!!
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I doubt myself in this situation due to her saying she respects guys that don't game her etc
In general watch their actions as this takes precedence over anything else.
You allowed it to become a confidant/phone pal situation. She confides in you and sees you as a friend because this is where you allowed the frame to take you. No worries, it can happen. Just remember this with the next women so you don't end up in the same spot. Show your intent in a classy way. So she knows what's up.
Ideally the first phone call would have been a little rapport building, flirting, busting on her for stalking you on the web, etc. then "hey I gotta run to do X but you seem cool let's meet up sometime." And then schedule the meeting. 10 minute call max.
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She's telling me not in a vain way but that she's concerned as she can't get back from the train station if she meets me because she get's too much hasstle off guys.
It's just her polite way of saying 'no.'
Use this whole situation as a way to give yourself a shitload of confidence: Here is a woman who saw you in a train station and then frantically looked for you on a bunch of dating sites until she found you. These girls are drooling over you to this extent!
I would stop having the phone chats. If she isn't down to meet she knows you are and when you stop contacting her she'll know the way to see you again is to schedule a meeting. If she does, invite her for a walk or whatever and escalate from there. Otherwise, keep progressing and keep meeting more women boss!