REJECTION IS A BITCH
Ever got rejected?
Ever wanted to take the next step with a girl...and she said NO?
Ever approached a girl with the best of your intentions...feeling vulnerable...
And she just SHOT you DOWN?
I remember one situation where I was out with a couple of my friends...
And I saw this girl...
REALLY good looking girl...
She was dancing, looking FANTASTIC.
I looked at my friends, and like a BOSS...decided to walk over there...
I leaned in and whispered something to her...
And she...just looked at me.
BLANK stare.
Then she looked at her friend, and gave the weird look EVER...
You know the "look" right?
Like you're a complete MORON for talking to her?
Like you're just a worthless person who doesn't deserve to breathe AIR type of a look...
It was PAINFUL.
Then as I looked at her friend, she did
something even more embarrassing...
She "waived" her hand...as if to say "get the hell out of here, loser..."
DUDE.
I went back to my friends, and I could just see the look in their eyes...
like "Ouch dude..."
And yea, that was about the most painful rejection I ever experienced.
BUT...
A guy would think that's the END of the world as you know it.
You'd think you'll fall under the face of the earth and vanish from existence.
But after couple of minutes and getting another drink...
I realised the world DIDN'T STOP spinning.
I was still ALIVE.
And I realised that the entire situation...was just a girl not liking me.
It wasn't a BIG DEAL.
She didn't want to talk to me...
So f**** what?
You move on.
I was actually able to laugh about it with my friend afterwards...
Thinking back on it, I feel kind of cool talking about it.
I have a STORY to tell.
Guys, rejection is NOT a big deal.
You talk to some women, and they don't like you...
So WHAT?
It's just a girl who didn't like you...it's not like you robbed a bank.
I see too many guys paralyzed by FEAR of REJECTION...
They are so afraid of walking up to a girl in a live situation, and having it not turned right...
That they'll avoid it at all cost.
Let me share with you a little secret...
There are FAR worse things in life that can happen to you, besides getting "rejection" from a girl.
> You can get hit by a bus..
> You can get mugged and stabbed on the street...
> You can get sick or something can happen to your loved ones...
Getting a "NO" from a girl is actually not such a big deal.
When you feel REJECTION...
it means that you're actually DOING something in your life.
If you sat on your couch for an entire day, you wouldn't get rejected.
So I know that rejection can be FRUSTRATING...
I know that it can shake up your feeling of worth as a MAN...
But I'm asking you that you DON'T DO THAT.
Don't make it about YOURSELF.
As a man, learn to accept that some things, people and yes - women - will say NO to you...
And that's LIFE.
It's OK.
Don't worry about it too much...just let it happen.
If you like that girl...go and risk it.
You may get rejected..but you may NOT.
She may actually like you.
So don't waste your life in fearing the BOOGIE man.
Stand up and face him like a MAN.
I promise you, you'll be surprised at how many times things turn out to be OK in the end.
Peace guys
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