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So, I didn't see her again and then added her on FaceBook a couple of days later. She rejected my friend request.
Jesus christ.
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I have seen her a few times since and she smiles at me, says hello, and then starts talking to my son.
You never talked to her, then Facebook stalked her.
Creepy as fuck.
Move on.
I'm 40, and as age disparity increases in pickup, you can get away with less and less creeper moves, and you have to be more dominant. A Facebook add was incredibly beta. A 22 year old guy could probably have gotten away with this, as the woman expects feminine behavior from that age bracket. But a grown man should not be adding 19 year old women on Facebook.
In fact, never ad women you're too chicken to ask out face-to-face. Just ask them out directly, in person. Otherwise, it's the same effect as "lingering". See the recent thread.