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PostPosted: Sat May 23, 2015 9:17 am 
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Ok, guys last night I went on daytime, night-time cold approach from about 5.30pm-11.30pm. I got a few numbers but I wasnt really satisfied with some of my interactions. Last night is the first time in a month that I have had a chance to do any cold approach and I know its not enough. While I was taking a break and lining up in McDonalds I was thinking to myself...."really, I shouldnt do this again until I can go out many nights in a row."
So anyway, my first approach was on a train, I saw this girl opposite me, beautiful brown eyes, short mini skirt and her thighs were driving me fucking insane. She was wearing headphones so I got her attention and said to her..."hi, nice thighs." I felt hesitant energy in saying it, and I dont think my delivery was passionate enough. I was put off because there were alot of people on the train, there were three girls literally laughing at what I was saying. Anyway I spoke with this girl for a few minutes, in my mind I was thinking "wow, I want to fuck you as soon as possible, but I dont want to have a boring talk with you." But I couldnt think of how to execute it. Given the logistics I didnt even think I would get her number if I asked so soon. It seems like they always use this "I have a boyfriend" or "im married" excuse. I usually have a response to that like... "really? I have a goldfish" or "well, he can be the best man" or "tell them im gay" and it only usually gets a giggle out of them but not much else.
So I asked for her facebook and she started beeing stupid about it, she said that she has given me enough clues and that I should be able to find her. I said to her just give me your full name, and this idiot was next to her on the train, like he was getting frustrated by me talking to her, and she said no, I dont want to disclose it. So I was thinking "fuck off and play your silly games."
So I just said to her a few times...."shame on you" and we stopped talking. She got off on the next stop and said goodbye and i ignored her, so yeah i didnt get to fuck her like I wanted to. Yeah bad interaction.
My point is, I want to get out of this frame of mind where im thinking while im talking to them....."ok this interaction is going to only last for a few minutes until I ask for her number".......also I have found that I just dont really like talking to girls much, I dont like boring introductory conversations, I want to let my sexual intentions known without having to make much effort and to fuck the girl that I want. And even when they give me their numbers, I dont just want to settle for that in my first interaction. I dont want to feel like im giving away my power by approaching them. I dont want to give them the power of deciding if im getting a number or a date out of them or even how long the first conversation lasts. I want the power. I want to get to a point where im even approaching girls who are already with guys when I speak to them, just to prove to myself that I have the guts to do it and that I can do it.
Another interaction I had, while I was at the park. I got this girl to take a picture of me. As she was taking the picture, I observed her and quick flashes went threw my head..."wow she is tall, she is wearing sexy pants, I want to finger her right now" and I was getting a boner. But she had this "im in a rush, I have to go, I dont want to talk" vibe to her so I didnt act upon these rush of feelings. How do I do it? How do I stop the sexy girl with sexy pants who is in a rush?
How do I stop those sexy short girls with nice asses who are in the park going for a jog and run by you in about two seconds?


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Mate i can see lack of confidence here!! Stop thinking too much and stop being needy. Go and approach girls after sometimes you will see the progress. When you see that she is in charge, you know why you feel that she is boss because you want something from her and when somebody wants something from you feel like boss. so if you want to remove this situation you have to work on your creativity. Don't just go and tell her that she beautiful, she know that. So you have to be more confident and need more practice. i can write on this topic like 100 pages.

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PostPosted: Sun May 24, 2015 12:50 pm 
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Bah, no paragraphs

*PEBBLE exits from this trap*

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PostPosted: Mon May 25, 2015 1:51 am 
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How do I stop those sexy short girls with nice asses who are in the park going for a jog and run by you in about two seconds?
You are too needy and direct approaching is making it worse.

You need to use Indirect approaches until you can get women consistently showing you that they are interested.

This will show you in a less traumatic way what behaviors, voice tonality, etc are causing negative reactions in the women and you can remove them with practice until they are gone.

You are like this: "I haven't run a mile yet but I don't want to mess with that. I want to run a 10k right now."

Your interactions also lack any structure.

You need three standard openers that apply in the majority of situations you find yourself in.
Then, you need a short routine to convey your personality and make them laugh.
After they laugh and have relaxed ask them, "So what are you up to today/right now?"
Tell them what you are up to... then, tease them a bit...
If they are still laughing and talkative then set up a time to meet them (aka TimeBridge).

You can find tons of material to cover all these points on this forum.

Don't fly alone. Many thousands of guys have already made these mistakes. No point in frustrating yourself making such basic, elementary mistakes.

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PostPosted: Mon May 25, 2015 10:01 am 
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How do I stop those sexy short girls with nice asses who are in the park going for a jog and run by you in about two seconds?
You are too needy and direct approaching is making it worse.

You need to use Indirect approaches until you can get women consistently showing you that they are interested.

This will show you in a less traumatic way what behaviors, voice tonality, etc are causing negative reactions in the women and you can remove them with practice until they are gone.

You are like this: "I haven't run a mile yet but I don't want to mess with that. I want to run a 10k right now."

Your interactions also lack any structure.

You need three standard openers that apply in the majority of situations you find yourself in.
Then, you need a short routine to convey your personality and make them laugh.
After they laugh and have relaxed ask them, "So what are you up to today/right now?"
Tell them what you are up to... then, tease them a bit...
If they are still laughing and talkative then set up a time to meet them (aka TimeBridge).

You can find tons of material to cover all these points on this forum.

Don't fly alone. Many thousands of guys have already made these mistakes. No point in frustrating yourself making such basic, elementary mistakes.

Captain Jack

Sounds too boring and structured and too much of a logical conversation, not exciting enough. If I read this first I would be like "fuck I dont even want to try cold approach." Your approach seems, this is on the bitches terms, because im scared of going direct because its not going to get me from A to B.


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How do I stop those sexy short girls with nice asses who are in the park going for a jog and run by you in about two seconds?
You are too needy and direct approaching is making it worse.

You need to use Indirect approaches until you can get women consistently showing you that they are interested.

This will show you in a less traumatic way what behaviors, voice tonality, etc are causing negative reactions in the women and you can remove them with practice until they are gone.

You are like this: "I haven't run a mile yet but I don't want to mess with that. I want to run a 10k right now."

Your interactions also lack any structure.

You need three standard openers that apply in the majority of situations you find yourself in.
Then, you need a short routine to convey your personality and make them laugh.
After they laugh and have relaxed ask them, "So what are you up to today/right now?"
Tell them what you are up to... then, tease them a bit...
If they are still laughing and talkative then set up a time to meet them (aka TimeBridge).

You can find tons of material to cover all these points on this forum.

Don't fly alone. Many thousands of guys have already made these mistakes. No point in frustrating yourself making such basic, elementary mistakes.

Captain Jack

Sounds too boring and structured and too much of a logical conversation, not exciting enough. If I read this first I would be like "fuck I dont even want to try cold approach." Your approach seems, this is on the bitches terms, because im scared of going direct because its not going to get me from A to B.


You hate women don't you?

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PostPosted: Mon May 25, 2015 2:17 pm 
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How do I stop those sexy short girls with nice asses who are in the park going for a jog and run by you in about two seconds?
You are too needy and direct approaching is making it worse.

You need to use Indirect approaches until you can get women consistently showing you that they are interested.

This will show you in a less traumatic way what behaviors, voice tonality, etc are causing negative reactions in the women and you can remove them with practice until they are gone.

You are like this: "I haven't run a mile yet but I don't want to mess with that. I want to run a 10k right now."

Your interactions also lack any structure.

You need three standard openers that apply in the majority of situations you find yourself in.
Then, you need a short routine to convey your personality and make them laugh.
After they laugh and have relaxed ask them, "So what are you up to today/right now?"
Tell them what you are up to... then, tease them a bit...
If they are still laughing and talkative then set up a time to meet them (aka TimeBridge).

You can find tons of material to cover all these points on this forum.

Don't fly alone. Many thousands of guys have already made these mistakes. No point in frustrating yourself making such basic, elementary mistakes.

Captain Jack

Sounds too boring and structured and too much of a logical conversation, not exciting enough. If I read this first I would be like "fuck I dont even want to try cold approach." Your approach seems, this is on the bitches terms, because im scared of going direct because its not going to get me from A to B.
Well, all I have to do is compare a normal day in my life compared to what he wrote and know that what I do is extremely successful by comparison... and, I have over 700 pages of documented posts and lay reports of SUCCESS compiled over 10+ years in the Game. That includes working with and winging with some of the most successful pickup artists on Earth.

I can already tell by this line "this is on the bitches terms" that you are off base. And... I have no problem going direct whatsoever but I choose to always use the highest probability move at every point in the interaction.

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PostPosted: Mon May 25, 2015 2:58 pm 
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''And... I have no problem going direct whatsoever but I choose to always use the highest probability move at every point in the interaction.''
In other words bending to the bitches terms. But anyway your record speaks for itself in terms of success, im the one that wants to learn. I have been trying for the last six months to get better at it, but sometimes I only get to go out up to once a week or sometimes even just once a month. If I do it about 30 minutes a day I would like to think that I would get better at it. Its enjoyable sometimes, but other times it feels like a waste of time and I feel like when I was a kid on the playground, looking to fit into a group and trying to entertain myself at the same time.


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In other words bending to the bitches terms.
Why do you keep talking like this? You do know you're just gonna get banned if you carry on like this? I am pretty sure this could be a deeper issue with why you're not getting the success that you want...

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PostPosted: Mon May 25, 2015 5:08 pm 
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As much as I find the attitude you show here on the internet to be ridicules, I think you'll be fine once you become a bit more active with your approaches. You've went out once in the last month and got a few numbers. I don't think you need guidance as of yet, as much as you need consistency.

Keep getting out there and through trail and error you'll experience the adjustments you need.

Unfortunately there are girls out there for guys like you. I see it all the time.

But if you actually want to elevate the women you allow into your life, you're going to need to completely adjust how you see the world. From my POV your on a path of destruction. You'll bring women down and contribute to the degeneration of society. We need more men doing the opposite. Get laid, but also contribute somewhat of a benefit to their lives if you can. The phrase is to leave them better than you found them.

A good place to start.. Would be to stop eating MCdonalds. We are what we eat. You eat garbage, you think garbage. You think garbage, you speak garbage, and if you speak garbage you'll act out garbage.

And if you're in NYC let me know.

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I am almost 100% that you watch porn on a regular basis, probably daily and also probably mastrubate a lot.

I can pick on that by you having absolutely no interest in women other than sexual.

It's fine to have a level of sexual interest, but if you're fapping all the time and brain washing
yourself to think a woman is nothing else than a body with a vagina
, you'll have a hard
time having success with them.

I invite you to do 2 things:

1. Quit watching porn and objectifying women that much.

2. Mastrubate 2x a week at the max.

Then go out and talk to women, and you'll notice yourself being SOOO present and in the moment,
breathing fully and looking at a woman differently.

Then come back and tell us if you're still having this problem.

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How do I stop those sexy short girls with nice asses who are in the park going for a jog and run by you in about two seconds?
You need three standard openers that apply in the majority of situations you find yourself in.
Then, you need a short routine to convey your personality and make them laugh.
After they laugh and have relaxed ask them, "So what are you up to today/right now?"
Tell them what you are up to... then, tease them a bit...
If they are still laughing and talkative then set up a time to meet them (aka TimeBridge).

You can find tons of material to cover all these points on this forum.

Don't fly alone. Many thousands of guys have already made these mistakes. No point in frustrating yourself making such basic, elementary mistakes.

Captain Jack
So sweet and eloquent there from CJ. It is this simple when one can remove the programming and focus on the required elements of chatting a girly up. I read somewhere to attach, or associate, positive emotions to you for her. Women love attention, so I'm going to be playing with feeding them what they want and grooming their egos. I'm in no way trying to undermine CJ's thing there though... That would be laughable. :lol:


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