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My college is kind of like high school in that you walk into the caf and you see the same people every day. Lot's of little cliques and stuff but basically people know each other. I have no problem meeting people and having a decent first conversation with them, but I want to demonstrate interest while not come across as weird, which could result in me blowing myself out with other people. It's been my experience so far that when I meet a girl, I soon find out she knows lots of the same people I know, so I feel like I have to be a bit more sly.
Also, I'm wondering how to go about escalating with girls I already know and who are friends with all of my friends. Because it would be really bad to fail with a girl that everyone knows.
Any suggestions?
Common occurrence here. I see this all the time. Basically you have to play this like chess. You must pick the ones that you are super interested in and go for it. Don't hold yourself back just because "they are friends with your friends". Fuck it. Make a move, because you will regret it in the future. But, I understand that you don't want to be ruining a whole social circle, that's why you CHOOSE WISELY. Go for the ones that you really want and make it happen. Don't give a shit what people think of you. This is what social circles are great for. They help you get in easier with the women you want.
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