as far as college game goes, I've been finding that low key openers are great. Just going in with the 'who are you, why don't I know you yet mindset' just presents a much more comfortable situation to a girl, so I've been going with openers like 'Hey, you seem interesting, what's your name?' and stuff like that. Sometimes I use a situational/observational opener to open up a conversation but it's always in that same mindset.
The book that's really been defining my mindset towards college game has been Conquer Your Campus. I thought it was great when I read it. I can't honestly say that I'm even close to reaching any level of competency in practicing it, but that's essentially how I'm practicing it and thinking about it. Also one of my favorite threads that I've seen in this forum in the short while that I've been here as been Stormy's Mindset of an Alpha Thread
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