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Author:  JackZero [ Sat Jan 21, 2017 6:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl Reluctant to meet

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Right. Not everyone, but I would give the exception to a few.

I have three numbers and going on date with one tomorrow. But I still have one that will not give her number out to me and says she is busy but never said she wouldn't go out with me. Which she probably is busy with grad school and working full time. Point is I'm still talking to this one because she's responsive thru tinder. In the long run she may lose out but there is no point to not messaging her anymore just because she won't give me her number lol.

Some girls won't give there number until AFTER they have met you or you built up enough comfort with them over time.

I'm looking to date, not fuck around, maybe that's where you guys are getting confused at what I'm saying.
I get what you are saying. Even if it's what you say it is what you do doesn't make it the smart thing to do. You waited two months for one girl before even meeting her and the result was her being your girlfriend. That was an investment of your time. You spend all of that time thinking, "I like her and I want her to go out with me," while she sits there and says not yet. You keep going with it in the hopes that this time will be the time. After two months, you feel like you have a victory and with all of that investment that you've put into this one girl, your brain is just mushy enough that you will jump at the chance to be her boyfriend.

My time is valuable and I'm smart enough to know that a girl on tinder wants you to see her in a certain light. I know that text messages with someone you haven't met do not always represent who they really are. There's no way in the world that I'm going to waste my valuable time messaging someone who wants to wait more than a week to meet when there are so many other women who are willing to meet.

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