What's going on guys! I'm brand spanking new to the PUA community since I found it last week. It's mind blowing how much information and knowledge there is on picking up girls and I'm here to absorb all of it like a sponge! So far I've been reading text, phone, and conversation game and just getting my feet wet into the game.
I'm using Tinder, cause it's the perfect gaming tool, and I've been talking to some chicks recently. I'm a slightly above average dude and the girl in the convo below is 18 y/o HB7. I usually start out fucking fantastic with opening 95% of Tinder girls, but then it slowly and surely goes to shit. I can't pinpoint exactly what I'm doing wrong but it could be that I'm overly investing, not demonstrating enough value, not playin games, talking about her too much, asking too many questions, not framing, waiting to long for the meet up.....the list goes on and on...
Let me know what you guys think of the convo and hit me up with some advice and tips on how to improve. I'm VERY interested in what you guys have to say!
Me: R u the girl that looks like Selina Gomez? Too many people, I can't tell lol
HB: Hahaha wait what? I'm confused
Me: Nvm I can tell who u r now cause of ur selfie at the end but u do like a cuter version of Selina Gomez
HB: Hahaha aww thanks! Selena is my girl
Me: Woah, woah, woah! Slow down the song! Your friends with Selena? U better get me her autograph and 5 thousand dollars cause your rich $$
HB: Hahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahaaaahahahah silly.
I love Selena she's my fav
Me: I accept cash, credit card, checks, hugs or kisses!
HB: 5 thousand is so little
Me: 5000 hugs and kisses is little? What are u trying to say exactly...
HB: Oooooo shit I thought we were talking about money
Me: I was just teasing you lol. Ur actually pretty funny (unlike most girls on here)!
HB: Hahaha thank you
What are most girls like on here! Please explain
Me: Some are cool and interesting but most are boring af. U can get better conversation out of a parrot!
HB: I heard some are thirsty af
Me: Yea those are the more interesting conversations. Within 10 minutes they want to meet up and have ur child lol
HB:Hahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahaha
What savages
Me: So why is Julia on here? To find ur prince charming in knight armour...
Or just too lazy to get ur ass up to go find guys at the mall like normal people do?
HB: Wouldn't that be a dream come true. I have lost hope in all humanity actually. For the life of me I can not find a good guy. So, I thought why not try tinder.
I'm just looking for a good guy. Hbu
Lol people go to the mall to find people. That's some mad weird shit
Me: Was playing with my cute pussy cat... Why'd u lose hope in humanity? We're living in the best time ever in history and in the best country in the world! I'm just checking out the app and seeing whatever happens, happens.
HB: Hahahah yeah we may live in the best country but not with the best people
Me: I would have to agree with you on that one! Most Americans are complete idiots that are lazy af.
HB: It's very unfortunate
Me: I assume ur still in highschool from ur 4th pic. Cute outfit btw
HB: Yes I am
Rereading it now, I can definitely see that I built up way to much rapport and that I need to break it. Too much pull, not enough push. Am I right in my assumption?
I could have also expanded more on her statement of trying to find a good guy on TInder by asking her what she considers a good guy and then expanding even further.