So... long story. I'll try to make it as short as possible.
Met this girl on pof. I'm 24, she's 22. Got (have) oneitis for her. Been talking for about 5+ weeks. She's technically long distance (lives about 4 hours away). We haven't met yet, but had planned to in a couple weeks. Things have been moving somewhat fast. Enough for both of us to delete our pof profile. She asks me to talk to her more, and that she wants to talk all the time.
Earlier this week she sent me a text saying, 'I think I'm just going to delete your number.' I asked why... semi-long story but she thinks I have a girlfriend. So basically doesn't trust me.
(Quick back-story... Recently I said I need to go eat, and on another occasion I need to go shower, and that I'll text her when I'm done. I text back almost 2 hours later both times.)
So I ask why she thinks I have a girlfriend. She said it doesn't take 2 hours to eat or shower. I had to explain myself. Then we get into talking about what we want from each other. She said she thought I had a lot to offer and wants to be with me. I said something similar but we'll see what happens after we meet.
I could be wrong because I don't know her that well... So these are assumptions, but I feel like she likes nice guys/white knights, probably been cheated on (more than a few times), trust issues, she loves being chased, doesn't like to initiate, somewhat needy (which is a turn off to most, but because I'm the same I like it), things like that etc.
Now about today... We were texting for a bit. Nothing specific, but here's the end of our conversation that matters.
Her: I am fool.
Me: Who you calling fool, fool?
Her: Bish please.
Me: It's Bitch, Bitch. Kidding... kind of
Her: K.
Me: You know I'm kidding. Don't get mad.
Her: No. Bye.
Me: I said I was kidding. I was being sarcastic. It wasn't an insult. I'm sorry it came across that way though.
Her: Delete my number.
Me: Why?
I think it's okay to say she deleted my number, so I don't think I'll be hearing from her unless I contact her.
So how bad did I f*ck up? What should be my next move so I don't lose her? Although I think it's too late. And should she really be that pissed/offended, or would most women take offense to that? Especially over text where you can't detect sarcasm or tone.
I'm pissed not necessarily because she's walking away, but why she's walking away. Because she took offense to what I said. And if we continue to talk I'm gonna be kissing ass and walking on eggshells for months, over something stupid.