I'm new to the forum and in the last post where I introduced myself I said that I got social phobia (not that hard, but it is there and is a kind of problem for me) and aswell I don't go to the pub that often. I was thinking about how should I be able to find more people that I have'nt seen before etc. People who does not hang out on a friday night for example.
Awhile ago I was writting with girls kinda much, the girls STARTED to write to me when we had a conversation and before I had like 5-8 girls writting to me each day.
It was'nt often that I actually started to write to them at the first time, I did'nt comment their status (if I did'nt felt I want to comment it) and I did'nt write to them in the chat. I liked their status, I did not spam-like their status, but if they wrote for example 2 status everyday, I liked on of them each day (probably less).
I guess, not sure, that they started to think "why did he like that status? What is his opinion? Why did he like both of my lastest status?". After awhile, they start writting to me. They don't ask why I like their status, they have no idea, maybe I like what they write, like their ideas, like the picture of their new dog.
If I write to someone, they maybe ignore me, pretend to be away from the keyboard, thinking about some random guy just started to write. So, I let them write to me and I don't need a great opener since they opening me.
Facebook and internet dating is kinda hard, it's harder for you to show that you made a joke there, you was ironic. What I've seen on other forums where people been asking about their facebook/internet game they don't show that they are ironic, simply as a "haha" or a smiley would be good enough. Also I seen that some people starting to try to correct their gramar, pointing out that they wrote wrong on that word. Probably they even know that they pressed "J" instead of "K" by a mistake, you don't need to point that out for them.
I added a girl on facebook I have'nt seen before but found out that she was living in the same location, I liked her status and it took around one and a half week until she started to write to me after that I added her (usually it does'nt take that long time), but we meet up, took a walk with her dog etc.
Note that after you added someone, you should'nt like her older status she had before you were facebook friends.
Just felt that I would like to share how I do on facebook and that I got a kinda nice success with it.
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